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tetsujin gaijin wrote:You start thinking "Am I a clown? Am I here to amuse you?"
Maths Dude wrote: topic
I feel sorry for foreigners who have to stay a long time in Japan. I know that it
is quite a different place culturally. Just learning the language isn't enough
though. You have to understand our values and way of life that has a longer
history of development than North America. So I think that foreigners who
overcome the initial 'honeymoon' period since arriving here can become more and
more isolated until they become introverted 'nerd'. In many ways, they become
like us-trusting only in-group, without integrating the rest of the Japanese way
of thinking and viewing the world. Actually, I agree with Japanese boy above;
foreigners are being excluded from Japanese social groups. (I am not referring to
your participation in groups as a token gaijin, but rather toward a real deep
participation-its impossible) I think foreigners should leave Japan before 4 or 5
years- before you lose our 'self' and what makes you special to us Japanese in
the first place. Most overstayers I have met are what we call 'chuuta hampah
ningen'- which means halfway person; not Japanese and not foreigner. These
people find that they cannot (really) penetrate Japanese society, and when they
visit America, they feel out of touch with their own original culture.
find that they cannot (really) penetrate Japanese society
I feel sorry for foreigners who have to stay a long time in Japan. I know that it
is quite a different place culturally. Just learning the language isn't enough
though. You have to understand our values and way of life that has a longer
history of development than North America.
sillygirl wrote:I just wanna walk down a street without getting the sidelong glances.
Same old thing. These losers have done nothing with their lives, so they stand on the shoulders of giants and think they've reached the clouds on their own.Samurai_Jerk wrote:When will they learn that not all foreigners are North American and that though North Americans come from nations that are relatively young they are still from cultures that are thousands of years old. Hell, I can trace my family tree on my father's side back 1000 years and my mother's at least 500.
Samurai_Jerk wrote:I feel sorry for foreigners who have to stay a long time in Japan. I know that it
is quite a different place culturally. Just learning the language isn't enough
though. You have to understand our values and way of life that has a longer
history of development than North America.
When will they learn that not all foreigners are North American and that though North Americans come from nations that are relatively young they are still from cultures that are thousands of years old. Hell, I can trace my family tree on my father's side back 1000 years and my mother's at least 500.
Reddeville wrote:Great thread! Good debate! My opinion? Don`t believe the hype!
The Japanese poster is simply doing that old trick of Japan for the Japanese, bring the gaijin in to entertain us and then let them know they`re not welcome because we are Japanese with four seasons, a unique culture, no racism because we are all Japanese etc. The poster is just expressing that in a different way, trying to be clever. Trying is the key word.
What they are really proving is - Japanese people are uncomfortable with the idea that non Japanese can live in their society, negotiate daily life and business successfully and keep living here as long as they want to provided they put in the effort. Most of them could never do what we do if our home societies put in place the mechanisms against them that exist here against foreigners.
I`ve come across this attitude in Japan. All it does is show their insecurity and envy. Yes, envy that foreigners can cirumvent their barriers to live happy, productive lives here for whenever. As for the bullshit about how we can`t `penetrate Japanese society` (nice image for what is fundamentally a very camp society) - most of us don`t want to. We know we have more power doing our own thing and fitting in when we have. Japanese society is not some exclusive club which we are being denied access to, even if many Japanese labor under that illusion.
That post by the Japanese person is very sad and says more about her/him than they will ever know. Ignorance is the fix for the Japanese. Let them indulge in their delusions.
terebi_fanatic wrote:This!
Agree 100%. The person may have heard someone saying something along those lines and decided to spin it into a clever "Japan for Japanese" piece.
Looks like it's much more effective than those sh*t spewing vans on the streets of Tokyo.
By writing the word "Overstayers" the author revealed his true colors.
Well guess what buddy! The population is going way down and soon you'll have more old people than you can handle.
While "youngsters" are out partying nation is barely reproducing. That's when becoming more "open minded" gaijins will become a REAL necessity rather than a choice.
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