I am fairly goodlooking guy. The time I have spent reading this forum has lead me to believe that in Japan, the girls are very interested in gaijin. If I move to Japan with my japanese girlfriend will the temptation be too overwhelming? She has invitied her friends here to stay with us a couple of times and I nearly lost my mind. They are hot. But, I have noticed something. I have also read this. Is it true that japanese women turn their head when it comes to cheating? I can get pretty close to her friends without getting into trouble. Is it easy to keep relations with people outside of your relationship on the down low in Japan? Thanks alot guys.

From this post and your other topic it just seems like you want an excuse to be a playa in Japan, yet want to retain the Japanese girlfriend while you go there to help you with the language. Common, isn't it a bit unrealistic to intentionally go to Japan to chase Japanese girls while retaining the original girlfriend?

Choose one option or the other. I don't think doing both will work, or is fair. If you really want to screw Japanese girls, just leave the current girlfriend and go.

My point is, your whole going to Japan is based on the objective of screwing J-women. How could your girlfriend stay with you when she figures out the whole cheating thing is premeditated to the point of relocating countries while planning to cheat with women you haven't even met yet? She won't feel too good.

Alcazar wrote:From this post and your other topic it just seems like you want an excuse to be a playa in Japan...

Ahhhh, let the guy have his damp dreams.

Yes. All things are possible for a budding
Charisma Man
If your girlfiriend is hard at work at the lab and you have some marginal part-time job that keeps you "out" a lot, you too may glow in charisma.

You can chase tail to your hearts content. It's not cheating until the ring is on her finger so bang away my good friend. Lay pipe like a Mario Brother.

Just don't let that cute smile hide those genital herpes or warts underneath.. Most girls thing that oral sex is a safe form of sex. So throw caution into the wind and ride her bareback.. come time it nearly falls off, head over the local pharmacy for some ancient chinese ointment.

Coming over to Japan just to meet Japanese girls is a bit strange. You have a girlfriend and there are a bunch of Japanese girls in America! And they are more open minded. Not empty minded...!

Besides, before I came to Japan...I thought I was good looking. But from what I get here in Japan....I AM NOT!

Japanese girls like young, tall, blonde, rich, rich, rich, rich, and very rich guys! If you can not buy her what daddy can....you will be laughed at!

Yes. This has happen to me. The girls, only laugh when they see my wallet. ( snif....)

I try to hide it...but they always find out that I only have a small wallet and an even small Mr. Happy. Its true!

So think before you arrive. Are you really good looking? In America you may be...but in Japan? Maybe not.....?

I once thought I was. But dude...you better have blonde hair, tall, and did I mention you better be....rich? Mula? Money, Show me the money, Yen...

Rich = God in Japan

However....

A large wang can substitute for money.

Please her in bed and money don't matter.

But in all seriousness. Stay in the states and stay with that lady.

Chasin skirts and tail is a muda na koto. Its pointless to chase ass. Cuz you cant screw all of them. And even if you DID screw all of them. It wouldnt bring happiness and would bring more problems than pleasure.

before I came to Japan...I thought I was good looking. But from what I get here in Japan....I AM NOT!

I gotta second that emotion.

American Oyaji wrote:However.... Chasin skirts and tail is a muda na koto. Its pointless to chase ass. Cuz you cant screw all of them. And even if you DID screw all of them. It wouldnt bring happiness and would bring more problems than pleasure.

Aaaahh.. now I know why your called AMERICAN Oyaji..!!!!

Japanese (real) Oyaji keep chasing skirts and IF they could manage to screw them all they'd just start all over again..!! In this case pleasure and happiness are not exactly the same thing..!!