McTojo wrote:What do you mean? Teaching at Uni. is no more easier than teaching at an eikaiwa. An if you mean you go out with your students more easily then you are a bad teacher.
I have news for you. It is not unusual that teaching personnel of a University go out drinking with students. Ever heard of Bounenkai en Soubetsukai? And yes, it is not only in Japan, but also in Europe and the US, where they have common social events. Nothing strange with that.
There is a good chance that the students that asked you to go out drinking with them just thought it be cool, without having anything sexual in mind. It is you with your suppressed frustrations who is the problem here.