Another good reason to love Japanese women.

[Pencilslave]

Since a lot more Japanese are choosing to not have children, I'm thinking more and more it'd be a smart move to date Japanese women since I'd be more likely to find someone who shares my desire not to reproduce.

Of course it'd make more sense to try to find someone who shares my views here in the states, but ironically it seems America, a country known for individuality and being home to all kinds of belief systems and cultures is more baby crazy than don't disturb the Wa Japan.

[hakuman]

Dude, I dont know where you are getting your info, but Japanese chicks are baby crazy. Maybe there are "more" chicks now that are not wanting babies, but that is only compared to before. Over all there are probably significantly more chicks back in that there America that dont want babies than there are in Japan.

[Taro Toporific]

Two points

First, most women are pro-baby for the same reason most men are pro-chasing---it's hardwired. Japanese women are really NOT that different in their procreation motivations than other women.

Second, Japanese women avoid childred because its painful/difficult for them in Japan. Some Japanese women see gaijin men as their 'ticket" to escape Japanese/Japan problems to have children and live white-picket-fence dreams.

[homesweethome]

I would also throw in the 'observation' that in about 1/3 of all marriages in Japan the women is pregnant, and 'lets' the guy get her pregnant so he will marry her.

And the guy even falls for it!

[Charles]

I would also throw in the 'observation' that in about 1/3 of all marriages in Japan the women is pregnant, and 'lets' the guy get her pregnant so he will marry her.

And the guy even falls for it!

I am curious, what happens if the man doesn't fall for it?

[IkemenTommy]

Yep too many dekichatta and omedeta marriages.
I'm getting tired of seeing people getting married because they got pregnant.


The guy could move, change phone numbers, and disappear from the face of the planet if the worst comes.

[oyajikun]

Yep too many dekichatta and omedeta marriages.
I'm getting tired of seeing people getting married because they got pregnant.


The guy could move, change phone numbers, and disappear from the face of the planet if the worst comes.

Or.. the guy could grow a spine and take responsibility for the child. Of course my angle might be a bit biased since my fiance is pregnant with my child.. :S

[electrocat]

Or.. the guy could grow a spine and take responsibility for the child. Of course my angle might be a bit biased since my fiance is pregnant with my child.. :S

i agree, if you didn't want a kid, wear a condom. Running away is the spinless thing to do. You just fucked some kids up for life because he/she doesn't have a father. How would you like it if your dad ran away.

[IkemenTommy]

Fuckin jesus.
I was kidding of course.
I wouldn't do such a thing.

[oyajikun]

Fuckin jesus.
I was kidding of course.
I wouldn't do such a thing.

I thought you were joking, but I still felt inclined to comment.

[cstaylor]

Lawyer just told me, he told me what it is
That bastards not my babyyyyy.
I see you tryin to play me, (babyyyyy [x2])
I see you tryin to play me. (babyyyyy [x2])
You know, why me?

...rest of the lyrics...

[homesweethome]

I would also throw in the 'observation' that in about 1/3 of all marriages in Japan the women is pregnant, and 'lets' the guy get her pregnant so he will marry her.

And the guy even falls for it!

I am curious, what happens if the man doesn't fall for it?

I know you didn't just arrive yesterday.

[Charles]

I would also throw in the 'observation' that in about 1/3 of all marriages in Japan the women is pregnant, and 'lets' the guy get her pregnant so he will marry her.

And the guy even falls for it!

I am curious, what happens if the man doesn't fall for it?

I know you didn't just arrive yesterday.

I'm serious. I was just wondering about Japan's supposedly high abortion rates and whether the woman just gives up on the whole thing once she figures out it's not going to work.

[homesweethome]

I would also throw in the 'observation' that in about 1/3 of all marriages in Japan the women is pregnant, and 'lets' the guy get her pregnant so he will marry her.

And the guy even falls for it!

I am curious, what happens if the man doesn't fall for it?

I know you didn't just arrive yesterday.

I'm serious. I was just wondering about Japan's supposedly high abortion rates and whether the woman just gives up on the whole thing once she figures out it's not going to work.

I wasn't sure if you were just pulling my leg or not. Yeah I'm afraid it is time to call the Hoover salesman if things don't work out. If it's too late the woman will often go abroad to have the baby and give the child up for adoption, or have it here and raise it in shame while living a semi-reclusive life with the parents. Sometimes they try to make the guy take responsibility, but this involves DNA testing, courts, child support non-payers, a big mess. If the poor woman is fortunate, she may find a sympathetic FG to marry her and help her raise the kid(s).

[Tsuru]

There are a lot of good reasons to love J-chicks, but this is not one of them.

Mine stubbornly refuses to take the pill and basically can't wait before I knock her up.

[IkemenTommy]

Mine stubbornly refuses to take the pill and basically can't wait before I knock her up.

True. A lot of them don't use the pill, unfortunately because they say that they'll become fat. I don't think you're supposed to take them while you smoke either, and I think that's one of the reasons why a lot of J-girls prefer not to be on the pill.

When in doubt... just pull out :P

[Tsuru]

...or use rubber

[Pencilslave]

I would also throw in the 'observation' that in about 1/3 of all marriages in Japan the women is pregnant, and 'lets' the guy get her pregnant so he will marry her.

And the guy even falls for it!

So here's the reasoning for my first post: I keep hearing about the declining birthrate and the Japanese igoverment offering incentives to couples to have children. According to Taro, most Japanese women are hesitant to have children because of the raw deal they get from Japanese society, but yet there seems to be a lot of women "oopsing" men into becoming unwilling fathers. So besides the shitty deal Japanese women get from society, what are the reasons the birthrate is declining?

[Adhesive]

Mine stubbornly refuses to take the pill and basically can't wait before I knock her up.

True. A lot of them don't use the pill, unfortunately because they say that they'll become fat. I don't think you're supposed to take them while you smoke either, and I think that's one of the reasons why a lot of J-girls prefer not to be on the pill.

When in doubt... just pull out :P

Also, I think the pill was only recently legalized in Japan, and still maintains a bit of a stigma. I was shocked when I found out my first J-gf wasn't on the pill because every American girl I had been with or knew was on it since they were 16, lol.

[Charles]

So besides the shitty deal Japanese women get from society...

You mean, as opposed to the shitty deal men get? Does the word "matriarchy" ring a bell?

[Blah Pete]

I don't think Japanese women have stopped wanting kids they just don't make as many as they used to.
The production line has slowed to an average of 1.x per breeder.
I think the J-gov wants to go back to the good old days when the rice farmers would have 4-6 farm hands (children).

[IkemenTommy]

For one thing, having children is VERY expensive when you have to consider paying for food, housing, education which includes all those after school private learning, piano lessons, violin lessons, tennis lessons, etc. The women would much rather spend their money on their favorite LV and Hermes bags instead.

[Neo-Rio]

It seems that most 20-something Japanese like to talk about getting married.... but not so strangely this group can't seem to get partners in the first place.

As for the people who DO get partners, they are too busy getting around and having abortions where appropriate to even bother with marriage. Hence no birthrate.

A lot of Japanese women want to marry a rich guy, whilst they just don't understand that rich men don't marry poor, broke freeter girls who are just looking to escape the workforce. Rich men seem to either marry rich women, like doctors, so they can have a wealthy family and have money spent on them instead - or spend their money on whores and the like.

[kin]

You know, I considered marrying a Japanese woman.


But one thing : I am not having kids. Oh no fucking way. The last thing I want to do is give up my life for a kid. I know it sounds selfish, and in a way it is. Really though, I don't like kids or want kids. Very true how alot of Japanese women want to get with a white guy for the money and free ticket to a nice house, and true with most foreign Asian women. Too bad....... : /

If I do meet that "special girl" that is Japanese, she better not want kids.

[Tsuru]

Sounds like a fair deal to me.

White men want to have the upper hand in their relationships they can't get anymore with most white girls, a girl that doesn't talk your ears off, who has a natural sexiness without having to make too much of an effort, faithful, the list goes on.
Nothing more than fair for them to want something in return, like going somewhere where the grass really is greener.

It's a win-win situation in most cases. And besides that, interracial relationships are good for the genepool

To be perfectly honest I wouldn't really mind having kids with my J-fiance at some point... just not right now

[Sarutaro]

My J-wife is now pregnant with our first child. Just 5 more months of waiting and we'll have another FG on this forum, Sarutaro Jr.!

Did I fall into anyone's trap? Not at all, this is the way things should be!

[Mulboyne]

My J-wife is now pregnant with our first child. Just 5 more months of waiting and we'll have another FG on this forum, Sarutaro Jr.!

Did I fall into anyone's trap? Not at all, this is the way things should be!

Congratulations to you and your wife. Small-size FG t-shirts are available, I think.

[Pencilslave]

You know, I considered marrying a Japanese woman.


But one thing : I am not having kids. Oh no fucking way. The last thing I want to do is give up my life for a kid. I know it sounds selfish, and in a way it is. Really though, I don't like kids or want kids.....

If I do meet that "special girl" that is Japanese, she better not want kids.

Kin, I totally agree with you. Here's some links for those of us who've
decided to not have kids: http://www.nokidding.net/ (Social club for childfree folks.) and http://www.childfree.net/(has links to sites about the childfree lifestyle.).

[FG Lurker]

http://www.nokidding.net/

Some people shouldn't breed. The designers of that site (my God my eyes still hurt!) definitely fall into that category.

[kin]

Ah, I would not join a community about it, I just would not want kids.....or a wife that wants kids.