FGs with the Nihonjin GF

[skroog]

How many of the FGs have Japanese girlfriends/wives? Im not going to bother being politically correct and offer female version of the question cos everyone knows Japanese guys got no chance.

Like you know the original thing which attracted me to my kanojo was cos she wasnt a complete psycho control freak like the white girls I have dated.

[American Oyaji]

How many of the FGs have Japanese girlfriends/wives? Im not going to bother being politically correct and offer female version of the question cos everyone knows Japanese guys got no chance.

Like you know the original thing which attracted me to my kanojo was cos she wasnt a complete psycho control freak like the white girls I have dated.

Dude, you're obviously new to the Islands.

Keep living in J-land and you'll understand.

[Iraira]

Don't worry dude. Give her time....she'll come around.

[james]

she wasnt a complete psycho control freak like the white girls I have dated.

the only question for me here is exactly how hard i should laugh.. hooo boy...

but yeah, give it time, she'll come around. they're all nuts, the world over, the whole fucking lot of 'em, it's just a matter of how nuts.

[FG Lurker]

Like you know the original thing which attracted me to my kanojo was cos she wasnt a complete psycho control freak like the white girls I have dated.

There are lots and LOTS of psycho women in this country. Women are much the same everywhere really... They're all fucking nuts. The only difference between one woman and the next is the degree if craziness. If you find one who is only moderately insane then don't let her get away.

I've never been stalked overseas so I have no idea what a gaijin stalker is like... I have been stalked here though and trust me, you do NOT want to experience it.

[Greji]

Don't worry dude. Give her time....she'll come around.

This is a country where everything has a connotation with, or about fish. This means as soon as she has you on the stringer, she will then explain to you how things will be from there on out. That will be your first clue on control issues in J-land and where she will not let you sit in the control room!

[otakuden]

she may be the exception to the rule...but prolly not. either way, best wishes

[Mulboyne]

I have been stalked here though and trust me, you do NOT want to experience it.

You've mentioned that before but I can't recall how it was resolved. Did she give up or did you have to take drastic evasive measures (change of address, phone number, job etc)? One bloke I know had his new fiancee's parents talk with his psycho stalker's parents. I would think that approach would be fraught with difficulty but it seemed to work for him.

[Tommybar]

I told my Japanese wife of 10+ years, she could tell me what to do when she could take the remote from me! She now goes to the gym...

But in all seriousness, I have dealt with my wife by understanding her and her culture and realizing that I am Gaijin living in Japan. And I do it my way anyway.

[FG Lurker]

You've mentioned that before but I can't recall how it was resolved. Did she give up or did you have to take drastic evasive measures (change of address, phone number, job etc)? One bloke I know had his new fiancee's parents talk with his psycho stalker's parents. I would think that approach would be fraught with difficulty but it seemed to work for him.

It's a long and rather messy story. The last time I saw her she was chasing me down one of Osaka's main streets....

I changed my keitai number and various mail addresses and she called me at work many times. I didn't even tell her where I was working, but had once mentioned in passing the type of industry (before she went nuts!) She called around all the different places she could find until she finally found me. Nearly shit my pants when I got that call.......Fuck, what a memory.

It felt like I was living inside some sort of really bad B movie.

[Iraira]

Having had two 5+ years relationships with two different Japanese girls, all I can offer you is the following: pick the girl with the shortest attention span. That way the fights end sooner, as she will get distratced easily. Those with infinite attention spans will bring up the past endlessly and march you around several "unresolved issues" all within the same fight.

[james]

Those with infinite attention spans will bring up the past endlessly and march you around several "unresolved issues" all within the same fight.

my wife has yet to finish a book from cover to cover but damn if that last bit there isn't on the mark 100%.

[Iraira]

[IkemenTommy]

Does the original poster want to see a show of hands or a quick lesson on how to get lay in J-land?

Pssst... it's not rocket science to get laid here if you are a gaijin (of any race except "other Asians") or you don't tell them that you teach English for a living.

[AssKissinger]

don't tell them that you teach English for a living.

Didn't hurt me none.

[Greji]

How many of the FGs have Japanese girlfriends/wives?

Yup!

[kamome]

To answer the original question, I doubt there any any male FG's who've spent any time in Japan and didn't have a J-girlfriend. So the better way to phrase the question might be who here hasn't had J-girfriends/wives.

[Taro Toporific]

To answer the original question, I doubt there any any male FG's who've spent any time in Japan and didn't have a J-girlfriend....

Gee kamome---You can't help but notice Tokyo is also gaijin gay ground zero for "significant others.":p

[Kurofune]

I occasionally get a compatriot praising me for marrying a non-American woman and escaping what they perceive to be the worst example of womanhood. I tell them a few J-girl stories, and they usually go away realizing that there is no Ideal Woman Xanadu.

[(1VB)freels]

Dude you need to write in English. Not this Leet thing that you are using. cos doesn't equal cause. Understand. Anyway. I have a Japanese wife. I was taken abck with the way that she held herself to a higher standard. She is from a modest family that was just making ends meet. Also, she was strong willed. her father had recently died(withing 2 years) from the time that we meet. She was determined to go to school and better herself. That was to me a major turn on. I was totally smitten by her. Plus, she has an amazing ass(thank god she doesn't read this). But this is what got me going.

[kurohinge1]

[(1VB)freels]

Hahahaha. Some J-women DO have asses. I was lucky to get one.

[kamome]

Gee kamome---You can't help but notice Tokyo is also gaijin gay ground zero for "significant others.":p

Yeah, I forgot about that. Maybe the best way to rephrase the question would be what gaijin male hasn't had a Japanese "significant other".

[American Oyaji]

Hahahaha. Some J-women DO have asses. I was lucky to get one.

My ex-wife and my mistress both had real nice butts.

[AssKissinger]

My ex-wife and my mistress both had real nice butts.

They probably both got real nice dicks stuck up in 'em right about now as well.

[Greji]

Most of the male ones who still have a pulse.

Oh! And gboothe!

Where's me bloody wallaby gun? I'll be down under shortly to show you what's what, Kuro! I don't like your insinuations, so as soon as they get me IV problem sorted out and get me a new prescription with some bran in it, I'mma coming for ya!

[cstaylor]

They probably both got real nice dicks stuck up in 'em right about now as well.

[skroog]

OK, as the original poster here, I guess I need to explain

I must first make an apology for my use of leet.

I guess I should have explained with a bit more detail my situation.
Been with my gf for 2 years, I speak near JLPT level 1 Japanese, she has near perfect English, we met in Japan in 2004 when I took a year off university back home. When we are together we both speak in our native language except in cases where we would like the conversation to be 'naisho'.

So yes, my post was more towards the people who have had a long-term relationship and also regarding the reasons and factors which turned you to the dark side.

I will take the opinion that all women are crazy, but do you not find that Japanese girls are, in general, less controlling? Maybe I have just had bad luck in the past, all 3 of my girlfriends in highschool and university were complete nutters. Like jeckel and hyde styles.

Her: 'I want to meet your family',
Me: 'umm...they are all dead, yea, possum attack, it was horrible'

[kurohinge1]

. . . as soon as they get me IV problem sorted out and get me a new prescription with some bran in it, I'mma coming for ya!

No worries. Just tell me what plane you'll be on and I'll let my mate at the airport know so he can . . . "welcome" you.
(He has a special glove for "welcoming" feisty tourists.)
Below is a picture of a "welcome" being practiced on a cow.



Just messing with you, G-man.

He uses the other arm.

[Greji]

Below is a picture of a "welcome" being practiced on a cow.


Just messing with you, G-man.

He uses the other arm.

How do you know he uses the other arm? He been working on you in the pub mate?

That'd be a bit of a jolt after a couple'a pints, wouldn't it! You might want to be a bit careful here, because the same procedure is used on horses, so you never know who's behind you! hehehe!