matsuki wrote:Samurai_Jerk wrote:matsuki wrote:Judging by all the married J-dudes I've run into here, banging their way through Bangkok, the "different country, don't count rule" is in full effect.
I think that's true for married dudes anywhere.
True...but going to bang hookers with your co-workers as a bonding exercise seems to be almost a requirement for J-companies. I've even heard from some older J-womens that they've gone out with the guys.
I haven't seen it go much beyond hostess or titty bars with a couple of exceptions but those were usually guys who lived way out in the burbs so instead of spending 15K on a cab ride after last train, they hit up a massage place when the rest of us left. More of a boys night out gone too far than a coerced bonding experience. It might be different if you work for a major firm though.
Anyway, that's getting away from my original point which is that in Japan it seems that sleeping around with civilians is looked down on more than paying for adult services. This is of course based purely on anecdotal evidence.