I've kinda been enjoying checking FG quite frequently recently so heres taking the plunge.
Obviously it's a difficult time to think of moving to J but heres my deal, sorry if this is really dull, but hey, there do seem to be some sound people on here who might be able to help with a couple of things, gosh you must get this alot.
I and my other J half (we're in our 30's) have just had our 1st sweet child in London, and well, maybe J might have more to offer. Married 3 yrs, my wife's an artist/calligrapher, I'm a carpenter, her english is good, my Japanese bad (but improving), should we come to Japan to do the do.
I guess what i mean is do we need to get married in J for me to get a spouse visa, how difficult is it to get work at the mo. When i spent a month over there after getting hitched i got hooked. Awesome/crazy place, loving the new and old, the wabi sabi, the wood, the water, the food... The carpenters look like ninja's!! How cool is that. Well i guess i know the chances of getting picked up by a carpentry firm without fluent J would be slim... and even then. So maybe its teaching English for me in the short term. Or perhaps web slave (my previous job here in London). How bad would it be for me with an ancient degree, no recent experience in graphics and no experience at all in teaching? But god damn i can talk it well.
The wife will probably run calligraphy classes (what she did before coming to London 10 years ago) but hopefully her painting will take off. London is an interesting place to make art but its hard to make money where ever you may be.
What d'ya reckon?... would i be an fg or a tfg.
Cheers all...