hurryharry wrote:American Oyaji makes a great point. I've found less 'popular' chicks to be more genuine and less full of themselves than the 'hot' chicks...plus the following:
I'm personally attracted to people I like either physically or in terms of personality, shared hobbies, views and all that good stuff...I've dated girls who may not be beauty queens, but I was attracted to and that's that. It boils down to taste. In the same way, I couln't get it on with someone I disliked. Even in my adventures in the land of eternal smiles, I went for nice or OK looking girls quietly and camly sipping a drink at the back of the bar, not the in-your-face, I'm-the-hottest-around type everybody else went for....
I once purposely targeted a self-confessed 'unpopular' girl and ended up dating her for 2 years. Not only was she a great date, but an awesome shag...it just annoyed me that she kept saying I should have gone for her hot friend instead...low self-confidence...
A friend of mine used to say all cunts look and feel the same...but I must say the body attached to it makes a hell of a difference, too...
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When I was in Jr. High School, we didnt have dating, we had "going with each other" because everyone knew that dating is over rated... takes out all the fun.
I honestly never had a "top notch" girl, but I had a girl before she became "top notch"... does that count? (no!)
I hung out with some girls in Shibuya that were rockin hot, but there personality was complete shyte to the point where being with them was embarrassing. So I left, found me a so-so chick that was cool, then yadadada.
A lot of the so-so girls can be tampered with to look amazing, its just that some of them never had the confidence or the resources to change their style, etc. to hit that level. That ends up being more for your cookie jar because its clean, fresh, and looks damn good in the end result.
(cant say that for all of 'em)