yeah GIYF, but a wide range is listed, anywhere from 9 in. (23cm, which seems low), http://www11.ocn.ne.jp/~nagariya/building_chabudai_english.htm up to 16 inches http://mantilo.com/updates/2006/10/24/project-kotatsu-post-2-construction-speculations/ (40cm, which is coffee-table height, and seems high). the average seems to be roughly around 12-14 inches. does this sound right. can anyone break out a tape measure to find out...? (i know not all places will have one but i'm sure you have easier access than i do

what height works well for you gaijin, esp the tallish ones? are you all hunched over spilling everywhere or is it a nonissue?