Discreet sex options

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

When I start feeling lustful for a woman besides my wife I just put my dick in my hand and start yankin'. Works like a charm! It's free, very little leg work and there's no legal or medical difficulties hidden in the price.

If you want extra fun, for just a little bit more money you can use a condom and have a "Posh Wank", You know the thing Charles and his ilk are into.

Marvin is right. Even if the sign says Japanese only just walk past it. The guy at the counter might ask you something Japanese. If you speak Japanese like a man (.i.e not like a fag that learned from a Japanese gurl or a textbook) then you wont face any problems.

Not that I have been to loads of clubs or soaplands but I play a lot of Mah Jongg in underground gambling dens, which is not the easiest thing to be introduced to, but you will learn some pretty good mens Japanese.

[FG Lurker]

When I start feeling lustful for a woman besides my wife I just put my dick in my hand and start yankin'. Works like a charm! It's free, very little leg work and there's no legal or medical difficulties hidden in the price.

Dontcha know man, that'll make ya go blind!

[electrocat]

i came across this site a while back.. its kind of whoremongers bulletinboard .. the link is for japan.
http://www.wsgforum.com/vforum/forumdisplay.php?f=237

Ive never used a prositute but my experience seemed like it would be pretty easy. I was walking in kubukicho at 11am one time when a guy came up and offered any kind of woman from thai to japanese with pics to prove it. Seems when you walk around that area, all the guys selling "something" turned so they didn't make eye contact, dont know if it was cuz i was gaijin.. but thats what it felt like. i just didn't know what they were standing there for. But walk around and someone will offer something.

[Video-Link Japan]

Who these days actualy uses IE?

Neo.. Our server stat .log shows the OS from site visitors, running about 20k unique per month, are about 65% on MS. So it's pretty safe to say that more than half of the average web surfers are 'actually' still using IE..!!!

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

Who these days actualy uses IE?

Neo.. Our server stat .log shows the OS from site visitors, running about 20k unique per month, are about 65% on MS. So it's pretty safe to say that more than half of the average web surfers are 'actually' still using IE..!!!

Not to be contradictory but, what of thoes that run browsers that Identify as IE (Like me lol).

I know globaly the percentage is like 85-90% but I think even taht is inflated on how browsers are identified.

[nampa666]

Firefox here.....its a nice, SECURE browser.

[FG Lurker]

I run Firefox too.

It is certainly light years better than IE from a security standpoint -- as long as you are talking about the ability of malicious code to open access to your box remotely.

If someone with a reasonable level of skill is able to sit down in front of your computer you no longer have security. Anything is possible. Passwords mean (less than) nothing.

About the only thing that will still give you security in such a situation is encryption. Strong encryption. Particularly if the machine is shut down and you have encryption running at the hardware level. No password, no boot. (I don't mean a BIOS password either).

Even this can be circumvented with some time and a hardware key logger. It's just a bit more difficult.

Really, if the intruder has physical access to your PC, the game is over.

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

I run Firefox too.

About the only thing that will still give you security in such a situation is encryption. Strong encryption.

Actualy if you heavily encrypt something it becomes more obvious, even it is easier to decrypt in some circumstances.

Even this can be circumvented with some time and a hardware key logger. It's just a bit more difficult.

Dell computers have a jumper setting on teh motherboard that actualy resets the password. (I worked for dell at one time).

Really, if the intruder has physical access to your PC, the game is over.

A network is physical access. Just dont use a computer at all lol.

[FG Lurker]

I run Firefox too.

About the only thing that will still give you security in such a situation is encryption. Strong encryption.

Actualy if you heavily encrypt something it becomes more obvious, even it is easier to decrypt in some circumstances.

Even this can be circumvented with some time and a hardware key logger. It's just a bit more difficult.

Dell computers have a jumper setting on teh motherboard that actualy resets the password. (I worked for dell at one time).

Really, if the intruder has physical access to your PC, the game is over.

A network is physical access. Just dont use a computer at all lol.

Neo... I think I'm going to have to return to my previous statement... You know a lot more about the sex industry than computers -- at least computer security. (Heh, that's not necessarily a bad thing...)

A network is not physical access. You can do many things across a network, but there are many more that you can only do physically. Couple of examples:

1. With physical access you can take a bit-for-bit image of any or all disks in the system. With this image you can do the actual searching for the data you want anywhere and any time you wish. A bit-for-bit image will let you recover any recoverable-but-deleted files too.

2. If the attacker wants to log onto the machine but it is behind a secure firewall with no open vulnerabilities, doing it remotely requires luck and/or a lot of talent. It might not be possible even then. And even if the attacker does get in, they can't necessarily do *everything* that could be done locally. With physical access though it is a less than a 5 minute job to change the admin password of a Windows system to whatever you want. Log in, do what you need, log off. Then you can change the admin password back to what it was before. Yes, it really is that easy -- if you have local physical access.

As for encryption... Strong encryption does not make things easier. Strong encryption of all disks in the machine on a hardware level makes unauthorized local access about as difficult as it is possible to make it.

The jumper setting on the Dell motherboards is common to most motherboards. It drains the power that maintains the CMOS that holds the BIOS settings -- including any BIOS passwords. That is why I specifically said I was not talking about a BIOS password.

Again, I make no claims to know everything about computers or computer security. I probably know a little bit more than the average Joe, but not necessarily much more!

[Andocrates]

When google makes a toolbar for firefox I might use it fulltime. But IE works just fine with a little modification of the security settings.

[FG Lurker]

When google makes a toolbar for firefox I might use it fulltime. But IE works just fine with a little modification of the security settings.

Only if you disable all active content. In that case you're better off using Firefox -- you'll still lose ActiveX of course, but you can use other active components with less risk.

[kurohinge1]

Think twice about cheating on the pussy at home

[goldenboy_ge]

Indeed, never cheat. I love that pic Kurohinge.

[nampa666]

Do you really think if I wanted moral opinions I would have posted here??

i would have just called up Dr Laura!!

[kamome]

Neo and I have differing opinions, but I think a wingman can be very helpful, IF the dude is cool and complements your personality. Going out alone can be a real drag, but I've had fun doing that too. Just depends on how you feel on a particular night and what you're looking for.

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

Neo and I have differing opinions, but I think a wingman can be very helpful, IF the dude is cool and complements your personality. Going out alone can be a real drag, but I've had fun doing that too. Just depends on how you feel on a particular night and what you're looking for.

You seemed to be managing yourself pretty well anytime I saw you in Heartland.

The crowd is to old for me I like the 18-20 group.

[Caustic Saint]

Do you really think if I wanted moral opinions I would have posted here??

Well, if it's not a moral issue, maybe it's a "you don't give two shits about your wife" issue.

Do her a favor and divorce her. Nobody should have to put up with a cheater. Plus, you're clearly too much of a coward to tell her what you're thinking.

Who knows? She' might appreciate the opportunity to try the marriage thing again, and this time she could try it with a man.

[nampa666]

ok caustic

dont lay your holy than thou shit on me

from now on I want you to tell your girlfriend/wife/ boyfriend everytime you have sexual thoughts about another person or masturbate ok?

Im really sorry that you got castrated early on in life but its not my fuckin problem.

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

ok caustic

dont lay your holy than thou shit on me

from now on I want you to tell your girlfriend/wife/ boyfriend everytime you have sexual thoughts about another person or masturbate ok?

Im really sorry that you got castrated early on in life but its not my fuckin problem.

Anyway if you are ever out on the town, lets hook up sometime. I will show you all the cool places. But I am soo fucking poor you will have to buy me a drink.

[nampa666]

hey neo, thanks for the offer man. I'll shoot you a PM sometime.

[Caustic Saint]

dont lay your holy than thou shit on me

from now on I want you to tell your girlfriend/wife/ boyfriend everytime you have sexual thoughts about another person or masturbate ok?

Nothing "holier than thou" about what I'm saying at all. Did I say I was better than you? No. I said "Nobody should have to put up with a cheater."

Thinking about doing somebody else isn't cheating. Masturbating isn't cheating.

Fucking somebody who isn't your wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend (without permission) is.

It sounds like you haven't cheated yet, but you certianly give the impression that you want to. And I don't have to know your wife to know she deserves better than that.

Because everybody deserves better than that.

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

It sounds like you haven't cheated yet, but you certianly give the impression that you want to. And I don't have to know your wife to know she deserves better than that.

Because everybody deserves better than that.

The think is that every man has mentaly cheated on his spouse. It hard wired into our brains. A lot of Japanese women understand that. As I siad earlier to the guy if he has a good relationship and does get caught, well for at least being curious then he sould be safe.

[nampa666]

ya and everyone deserves better than to be called a coward and "less than a man" by some nameless, faceless twat on a forum. (at least your nameless and faceless to me as I've not attended any FG functions)

Ive already started a thread that was very honest knowing that I would be opening myself up to some harsh criticism and I really didnt want to relay any other personal issues or facts about me but now I shall:

My wife once explained that she knew her dad visited prostitutes. She knew this because she saw him leaving one. She naturally was a bit emberrassed but after a while she understood. She then told me, without being prodded even one bit, that if I were to do that she would understand also...BUT just dont tell her about it. Of course Im not taking this conversation as carte blanche to go waste away our lifes savings on hookers......just every once in a while.

Im very proud of my wife, shes a very perceptive and smart woman who knows how REAL men think and feel. Somehow she understands what mens exaggerated testosterone levels do to them. She doesnt want anyone to pretend to be someone or something they arent.

anyways, Ive said more than I care to on a public board.

caustic, good for you if your happy maintaining a strictly monogamous relationship (now or in the future). Youll save yourself a few thousand yen....as for me I'll spend some money here and there paying for sex...
(and not feel even one iota of shame I might add)



whats it to you??

[Caustic Saint]

ya and everyone deserves better than to be called a coward and "less than a man" by some nameless, faceless twat on a forum. (at least your nameless and faceless to me as I've not attended any FG functions)

No, everybody doesn't deserve better than that. Some people practically ask for it.

As for my being nameless and faceless, my name's Drew and my photo has shown up on here a few times, and it's on my website as well (which is linked to via that button at the bottom of my post).

Ive already started a thread that was very honest knowing that I would be opening myself up to some harsh criticism and I really didnt want to relay any other personal issues or facts about me but now I shall:

My wife once explained that she knew her dad visited prostitutes. She knew this because she saw him leaving one. She naturally was a bit emberrassed but after a while she understood. She then told me, without being prodded even one bit, that if I were to do that she would understand also...BUT just dont tell her about it. Of course Im not taking this conversation as carte blanche to go waste away our lifes savings on hookers......just every once in a while.

whats it to you??

It's a personal thing. Aside from physical abuse, cheating is the worst thing you can do to somebody in a relationship. If you care for the person at all, you won't do it. If you still want to do it, you owe it to the person you're with to tell them. If they don't give you the green light and you still want to do it - the relationship is over. Period.

And if you can't bring yourself to tell them and do it anyway, you're an absolute coward.

Now, in your case, your wife has given you a "don't tell" green light. (Not "don't ask, don't tell" since she didn't say she's never going to ask, just that she doesn't want you to tell her about it.) You didn't say any of that before, so I guess the "coward" bit doesn't apply to you. I take that part back.

[tatsujin]

You make a compelling arguement Nampa. I think your on the ball when it comes to a lot of Japanese women willing to tolerate the infidelities of their men.

I have a friend who is married to a Jap woman and she more or less has a similar "arrangement" with him, they seem an extremely happy and cool couple.

I would tend to side with Caustic on the monogamy arguement but every man has a different view of happiness, and is thus entitled to chase after it. If no-one gets harmed in the process then I don't see anything wrong with it. More power to you for knowing yourself and being honest enough to discuss it on here

[goldenboy_ge]

Folks, I'm serious, here's not the right place to offend and pimp each other.
Everyone got a different view and we shall tolerate each opinion and respect the person. I know this topic is a very extravagant one, and if a person decides to free out his mind, so let him do. I knew that it may end up on an arguement. We should all reconsider and we shouldn't offend any person in a public forum. I'm glad that u haven't exchanged some naughty words yet and I hope u continue so. I really would like to write more, but I'm still at work and I'm super hungry.

My personal view of this whole conversation is, that I will never pay for sex, no matter how dirty my fantasies are. I am not that religious and visit the church every sunday etc, but I hold on to "life columns"- these are like never do this and do that and of course the 10 commandments. I am surley not Mr. perfect and Mr. Hale Julia, and I'd must admit that I watch porn and I can be very unfriendly too sometimes. But what I said to myself was, "never fuck a whore". There are so many reasons. I'm a very loyal person and I couldn't make a move to even fuck a prostitute when I am engaged with another woman or even when I got kids, then it would be completely taboo for me.
The other fact for me that I stay off from prostitutes, is I feel sorry for these woman and girls. Some of them were forced into the sex scene and many got no perspective and no chance to get out because of money and other reasons. I feel pretty unwell when I imagine that some 200 guys which she had slept with, had there dicks in her pussy, ass and mouth. Perhaps after I have finished the next "client" will have the pleasure with her..
U wont believe me, but I'd rather pay a prostitute for playing PS2 with me or spend some other great time with watching movies, go out for dinner and so on. Since I came back here I don't have much friends.

[jim katta]

Paying for sex in Japan is a total waste of money--why would you pay for something you can get for free with just a little bit of effort?

Not true, I've personally known at least two decent looking guys with great jobs in Tokyo who went on one year dry spells. These weren't brad pitt, but they were decent looking, dressed okay, and had really good jobs, and even went out a lot to restaurants and such. I believe them too, I've heard numerous stories from guys I don't know personally where they have a hard time getting some in japan. I don't think these guys are lame or ugly (look at some of the gaijin beasts some hot japanese chicks hook up with). If you don't have a proper lay of the land, hitting a dry spell in japan isn't hard at all. By the way, the two friends I know actually both spoke pretty good japanese, so it wasn't a language barrier.

There's a reason the sex business in Japan is so freaking huge and publically accepted.

btw, that whole thing about japanese women being accepting of her husband using prostitutes as long as he doesn't talk about it...IT GOES BOTH WAYS. Some of the easiest chicks to get in japan are married housewives, and the whole hostess club that caters to women business is experiencing a boom. So you she may understand your habit, but don't expect her to sit idly by and not get some on the side too. In terms of being clever hiding things, women are WAY better than men.

[goldenboy_ge]

Some of the easiest chicks to get in japan are married housewives <--- housewifes??!

In terms of being clever hiding things, women are WAY better than men. <--- indeed

[tatsujin]

As for my being nameless and faceless, my name's Drew and my photo has shown up on here a few times, and it's on my website as well (which is linked to via that button at the bottom of my post).

Like the vids section Caustic That party seemed to be a real blast

[Mulboyne]

The thing is that every man has mentally cheated on his spouse. It hard wired into our brains. A lot of Japanese women understand that.

I have so little to add to this thread it is sad. But the above quotation from Neo sounds like the opening line from "Fucked Gaijin: The Movie"