Child Abduction Issue Explodes

[IparryU]

Thanks. It looks like it's giving my posts the raspberry...

yes... i didn't even know that was real... looked fake.

[twww]

[twww]

Sayonara Baby

Broadcast: 22/05/2012
Reporter: Mark Willacy

Transcript:
http://www.abc.net.au/foreign/content/2012/s3508549.htm

N.B. For reasons of privacy this report is not available for viewing outside Australia. Viewers within Australia will be able to catch the story on iView until June 19.

Use IviewNapper to rip program from site:

http://users.on.net/~m.elliott/ivn/index.html

[matsuki]

Shit's so depressing but from that coverage, it sounds like basically harassing the hell out of the abductor and their family seems to work in some cases...still can't believe how many mental case and selfish parents there are out there.

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

I went apeshit in court earlier this week, called the mediators racist bastards, prejudiced and uncivilized war criminals...ended up in a ball on the floor crying. Probably not the classiest moment of my life.
If I'm really, really, really lucky, my kids may turn up to meet me tomorrow...

[BigInJapan]

If I'm really, really, really lucky, my kids may turn up to meet me tomorrow...

SDH, sorry to hear about your situation. I hope you get to see your kids soon.

[Sa_Race]

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No children here. I don't know how one can cope with this. RAAAAAGGGGEEEE over what I'm reading.

[SIZE="1"]In my case I would probably go all serbian mafia death squad on them. But dont blame me, I'm an uncivilized mediterranean scum, it's in my blood. And it's easier to find serbs in Japan than well, say, Corsicans.[/SIZE]

[matsuki]

In my case I would probably go all serbian mafia death squad on them.

I'm actually shocked nobody has (that I know about) so far considering the ineffectiveness of the J legal system (if you can call it that)

[IparryU]

I went apeshit in court earlier this week, called the mediators racist bastards, prejudiced and uncivilized war criminals...ended up in a ball on the floor crying. Probably not the classiest moment of my life.
If I'm really, really, really lucky, my kids may turn up to meet me tomorrow...

keep your head up man. my dad went through the same shit you are going through, we didn't see him flip out, but years down the road when shit started making sense, all the blame of dad not being there got put on mom.

I am about 3 years behind you, so I really feel your pain man.

[matsuki]

keep your head up man. my dad went through the same shit you are going through, we didn't see him flip out, but years down the road when shit started making sense, all the blame of dad not being there got put on mom.

I am about 3 years behind you, so I really feel your pain man.

THIS! SDH, when your kids grow up, they won't be to happy with your ex keeping them from you. My uncle went through the same thing...ex wifey was batshit crazy, lied and told my cousins all kinds of crazy bullshit about my uncle. They grew up, sought him out, realized they had been lied to and kept from a really great father, and keep their distance from crazy mom. (especially the ones that have their own families now)

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

Thanks everyone for all the wonderful messages.
Sorry, I shouldn't have posted what I did (in a bout of self-pity).
Really grateful, though, to all! Thanks!!!

[IparryU]

Thanks everyone for all the wonderful messages.
Sorry, I shouldn't have posted what I did (in a bout of self-pity).
Really grateful, though, to all! Thanks!!!

you can still edit it whilst no one has picked it up and ran with it.

I personally (despite me running my mouth on sensitive subjects and being very non-PC), would hate to see someone rag on you (or any other father) on that. One of my soft areas...

So just delete the sensitive stuff and move on. There is also the VIP thread you can vent in... but me don't get access cause I am too much of a cheap ass to donate ATM...

I do need to throw money at FG however...

EDIT... I just tried to edit my quote of those words and could not see the edit button... but on this post it was ok...

I would chase up TT or GG. They would bend the rules and delete our posts for this (i think...)

[BigInJapan]

you can still edit it whilst no one has picked it up and ran with it.
EDIT... I just tried to edit my quote of those words and could not see the edit button... but on this post it was ok...

There is a time limit after posting in which you can edit the post (set by Ultra or the mods I assume).
I think it is between 5 - 15 mins (GG or TT may know the exact time).

[gaijinpunch]

I guess I'm one of the "lucky" ones that is currently working-it-out with someone that has basically no marketable skill, and too much "pride" to ask the family for money. As such, she needs my dollaz, I need my kid. Still new, but that's the way it's kinda going. Hopefully we can keep it up.

Sorry you're not so lucky, SDH. I see my kid 3 times a week and even w/ that, I'm still a little bummed.

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

I guess I'm won of the "lucky" ones that is currently working-it-out with someone that has basically no marketable skill, and too much "pride" to ask the family for money. As such, she needs my dollaz, I need my kid. Still new, but that's the way it's kinda going. Hopefully we can keep it up.

Good luck and I hope things work out well for all.

[gaijinpunch]

Ditto!

[matsuki]

I guess I'm one of the "lucky" ones that is currently working-it-out with someone that has basically no marketable skill, and too much "pride" to ask the family for money. As such, she needs my dollaz, I need my kid. Still new, but that's the way it's kinda going. Hopefully we can keep it up.

Sorry you're not so lucky, SDH. I see my kid 3 times a week and even w/ that, I'm still a little bummed.

Ehhh, so you're paying for puss you're not getting just to see your kids? Don't see this working out well when she starts (if not already) banging other guys. (or if she wants to wife up again with someone else)

[Samurai_Jerk]

Ehhh, so you're paying for puss you're not getting just to see your kids? Don't see this working out well when she starts (if not already) banging other guys. (or if she wants to wife up again with someone else)

Maybe he just means child support. I hope he's not paying vaginamony.

[IparryU]

Maybe he just means child support. I hope he's not paying vaginamony.

child support me thinks.

I was thinking of doing the same thing, but I would rather tough it out living with them rather than splitting and having double the expenses.

pretty sure that is what he is doing... or at least I hope he is doing that.

[gaijinpunch]

Ehhh, so you're paying for puss you're not getting just to see your kids? Don't see this working out well when she starts (if not already) banging other guys. (or if she wants to wife up again with someone else)

Hmm... so many angles to attack this. Wasn't getting anything from the wife when we were under one roof. One of many reasons for the split up. Now, I get more pussy than I can handle (well kept, high quality stuff too!) so no problem.

The only thing that would suck about her banging other guys is that they might fork up the funds. However, I don't see this happening. Not for a while. Sure, it could and it would confuse things (especially if I decided to move to another cuntry) but she is not 28, which is basically the date of expiry for J-hos, a bit anti-social, and has a hafu kid. Nobody really busting down the deai-kei sites for the likes of her.

Call it what you want, I send them a substantial amount of dough every month. We haven't sorted out the particulars yet, and I was fine with that. I know this seems like an asshole thing to say as I don't know everybody else's scenario, but I think mine was top tier bullshit. It was brutal... and the current situation is worth the dough... especially considering my aforementioned bird. I'm just glad I can afford it, even though it's not easy in this shit economy.

I was thinking of doing the same thing, but I would rather tough it out living with them rather than splitting and having double the expenses.

Your wife clearly has room to be a much bigger cunt.

[IparryU]

Your wife clearly has room to be a much bigger cunt.

that and I dont like spending money if i dont need to.

if push does come to shove, i will just refuse to pay shit until i get the terms i want. she aint getting no guy with money at this point, especially with 2 hafu and works at the family chow hall...

plus the inlaws want be to stay with the kids (and wife) cause they dont want the other twin to be a single mom as well.

but for now, i hold my cards.

[matsuki]

Maybe he just means child support. I hope he's not paying vaginamony.

It's vaginamony

Hmm... so many angles to attack this. Wasn't getting anything from the wife when we were under one roof. One of many reasons for the split up. Now, I get more pussy than I can handle (well kept, high quality stuff too!) so no problem.

The only thing that would suck about her banging other guys is that they might fork up the funds. However, I don't see this happening. Not for a while. Sure, it could and it would confuse things (especially if I decided to move to another cuntry) but she is not 28, which is basically the date of expiry for J-hos, a bit anti-social, and has a hafu kid. Nobody really busting down the deai-kei sites for the likes of her.

Call it what you want, I send them a substantial amount of dough every month. We haven't sorted out the particulars yet, and I was fine with that. I know this seems like an asshole thing to say as I don't know everybody else's scenario, but I think mine was top tier bullshit. It was brutal... and the current situation is worth the dough... especially considering my aforementioned bird. I'm just glad I can afford it, even though it's not easy in this shit economy.

If she's that bad, wouldn't you likely get custody of the kids? The only think J-people dislike more than FG is deadbeat J-people....

[Samurai_Jerk]

If she's that bad, wouldn't you likely get custody of the kids? The only think J-people dislike more than FG is deadbeat J-people....

Surely, you're joking.

[American Oyaji]

that and I dont like spending money if i dont need to.

if push does come to shove, i will just refuse to pay shit until i get the terms i want. she aint getting no guy with money at this point, especially with 2 hafu and works at the family chow hall...

plus the inlaws want be to stay with the kids (and wife) cause they dont want the other twin to be a single mom as well.

but for now, i hold my cards.

Except for working at the family chow how, your situation sounds like mine.
My ex is a twin as well.

[gaijinpunch]

if push does come to shove, i will just refuse to pay shit until i get the terms i want. she aint getting no guy with money at this point, especially with 2 hafu and works at the family chow hall...

I'm in the 'if push comes to shove' camp as well, but I'm also trying to keep everyone nice and happy now. I've not gotten where I am by bossing people around and demanding shit. It's just not who I am (unless I have to be).

Surely, you're joking.

I'm w/ this guy.

[Coligny]

Except for working at the family chow how, your situation sounds like mine.
My ex is a twin as well.

fap fap fap fap fap... there goes mah mornin'

[IparryU]

Except for working at the family chow how, your situation sounds like mine.
My ex is a twin as well.

well... Send me your time line so I can copy it and know how much shit I will be in for the next couple of years. jk...

I'm in the 'if push comes to shove' camp as well, but I'm also trying to keep everyone nice and happy now. I've not gotten where I am by bossing people around and demanding shit. It's just not who I am (unless I have to be).

I'm w/ this guy.

I dont like being a prick to my wife's family... but when they complain to me about my wife complaining to them, I tell them I will divorce her and let them have even more shit. I also add that if my wife cannot work, the resturaunt will be fucked...

stops there.

Choko... i thnin LA has gotten to your head man...

[Coligny]

Cute article on j-mothers who can't get their kids back from dirty foreigners because japan is not member of the Hague convention...

http://www.japantimes.co.jp/text/nn20120605f1.html

Low on details... and seemingly not putting too much accent on the US legal aspect of the thing... except to say that the fathers play by the book stateside...

Didn't knew that wife of us citizen needed to be sponsored for a visa... To access citizenship, yea, might not be an overnight affair... but spouse visa !?

[IparryU]

Cute article on j-mothers who can't get their kids back from dirty foreigners because japan is not member of the Hague convention...

http://www.japantimes.co.jp/text/nn20120605f1.html

Low on details... and seemingly not putting too much accent on the US legal aspect of the thing... except to say that the fathers play by the book stateside...

Didn't knew that wife of us citizen needed to be sponsored for a visa... To access citizenship, yea, might not be an overnight affair... but spouse visa !?

Well... what goes around comes around. And I love the fact that Japan will get a big GTFO cause they didn't sign the 1980 Hague Convention.

I do feel sorry for the moms though... I didn't see my kids for a week when me and wify were in a rut... and I was all stressed out.

But good to know the process to get the kids locked into the US system. Thank god I already registered my boys SS#, birth abroad, and passport and did not get wify a visa.

[matsuki]

Surely, you're joking.

Not joking but was definitely into the drink in LV when I wrote that. Funny how positive and naive alcohol can make you. Back to reality, she'd probably go from being a deadbeat to the poor single mother, abandoned by the alcoholic and abusive foreign husband.