Are blow jobs sex?

[Tommybar]

I'm sure this has been discussed with the Clinton fiasco but I was unable to find anything on it here.

Is a blow job sex? If so, is fingering a girl sex?

For me they are both sex.

[jingai]

I'm sure this has been discussed with the Clinton fiasco but I was unable to find anything on it here.

Is a blow job sex? If so, is fingering a girl sex?

For me they are both sex.

Things are different in Japan, such as the use of tentacles, so it depends.

[Tommybar]

What are tentacles and how are things different in Japan?

[jingai]

http://www.fuckedgaijin.com/forums/showthread.php?t=14766&highlight=tentacles

[Tommybar]

http://www.fuckedgaijin.com/forums/s...ight=tentacles

I check the link, but it had nothing about blow jobs or fingering...and how is Japan different?

You would not concider what is pictured at the above link sex? If a dog mounted a woman and they both were having a good time, you would not concider this sex?

[AssKissinger]

You should have made this a poll.

[Greji]

You should have made this a poll.

What an outstanding challenge to intellectual research. This most be undertaken immediately and since it is Friday, I shall began gathering my data base tonight.

[Taro Toporific]

Is a blow job sex? If so, is fingering a girl sex?

Soapland like fashion massage, image club, rim jobs, and various sex businesses are allowed by Japanese law. The legal definition of prostitution loosely translates to the commercial offering of genital penetration in exchange for money. For example, the definition of "prostitution" does not extend to a "private agreement" reached between a woman and a man, nor does it cover penetration of the mouth or anus or any form of contact which results in the client reaching orgasm.

That's just Japanese law (always vague and crappy). Your interest in "fingering a girl sex" is sexual assault if its non-consensual or performed on an underaged girl.

Morally, Japanese are case-by-case. Japanese wives/girlfriends will differ widely on whether hubby's "health" blow-job is the end-of-the-world....generally it's not. I have listened to older wives advise newlywed girls in my company's ocha-room making tea is that the more professional the alt sex is, the less a Japanese wife is should be concerned. That is, hubby nailing a geisha on company expense account is a great honor, having a Ginza hostess with OPM is fine, and feeling up a "companion" paid at a company party is ok. Conversely, wasting household salary on bar-girl's wack-off is bad news and having a semi-paid girlfriend on the side is annoying-to-terrible waste of a family's limited budget.

Obviously, the more wealthy hubby is, the less concerned the Japanese wife is about the drain on family resources and the more accepting she will be of hubby fooling around. A rich Japanese husband who is discretely getting an occasional blow job or fingering a girl does not worry about whether that is considered "sex."

[kurohinge1]

. . . Is a blow job sex? If so, is fingering a girl sex?

For me they are both sex.

It depends on the context, Tommy.

For example:

If you're talking about procreating / breeding, they're not "sex".

If you're talking about sexual assault, they're "sex".

If you're talking about the girl still being a "virgin" on her wedding night, they're not "sex"]http://www.breaktaker.com/albums/pictures/oops/AngryWife.jpg[/IMG]

And so it goes on.

[Greji]

[quote="kurohinge"]If you're talking about a wife finding out that her hubby was doing that with someone else, and putting 4 pick-axes through his Audi, they're "sex". ]

No J-wife is going to do that, assuming the marriage is rolling along (smooth or otherwise). No way will she mess up a new car.

Having said that, if hubbie has caused her a loss of face, embarassment with neighbors, relatives, etc., through his sleeping around with the local fluzzies, it is highly possible that she might take long, sharp hocho "A" to sleeping flacid chimpo "B" and obtain obvious results to her great satisfaction. Hubbie in turn, will be greatly displeased with these results.

[Samurai_Jerk]

I said "yes" to a BJ being sex but I guess it is a lesser form of sex. And I'm glad that many girls do see it as less than sex. Though it happens less often the older I get (or maybe it's the older the women that I hook up with get), there are those girls who won't sleep with me but will give head as a kind of consolation prize.

[IkemenTommy]

What are tentacles and how are things different in Japan?

Shit, you asked for it

[Mulboyne]

Japanese wives/girlfriends will differ widely on whether hubby's "health" blow-job is the end-of-the-world....generally it's not

I remember sitting next to a bloke at work one morning when his wife rang. I quickly worked out there was trouble so I ended my own phone conversation in order to eavesdrop more effectively. It seemed that his wife had been speaking with another of his colleagues and had somehow realized that his arrival at a dinner event a couple of days previously was seriously at odds with the time he had left her. She was calling to ask him to account for the discrepancy. He had actually been making a call on his local blow-job bar, which he didn't wish to reveal, and his haplessly evasive attempts at mollifying her were a joy to hear. She was screaming by this stage. I suddenly heard my name thrown into the mix which could only mean that I was going to be asked to provide an alibi so I rose and edged away.

"Mate, stay there, You've got to help me. I need you to tell my wife that I was having a drink with you on Wednesday"

"I think she might have just heard you say that which could make her suspicious"

"No, don't worry, I put her on hold"

"I don't think that was a good idea"

Sure enough, she was furious at being subjected to muzak while in mid-rant - ironically, probably a version of Elton John's "Rocket Man" - and had rung off. She then refused to answer the phone when he called back. It was a fearful man who left for home that night. He asked me to be ready to provide the back-up alibi but I sadly had to tell him that I was planning to dine in a B7 restaurant where mobile phone reception would likely be very difficult.

He came in the next morning with a broad grin. Certainly, things had looked tricky when he had gone home and found her wielding a knife in the genkan. He was a terrible liar at the best of times, although he was the only one who didn't know it, so he promptly cracked and blurted out the truth. His wife was immediately relieved: she had assumed that he had gone to see a girlfriend. A visit to a blow-job bar was only a notch below popping out for a quick drink. Was it that place by the station? She hoped he hadn't left his moped outside where a neighbour might have seen it.

[urarara]

When I was a teenager my girlfriends and I considered a BJ differently from sex but now I realise its really no different. In fact I now think that in the mouth is probably more intimate. Maybe thats just me.

I wonder why it is that many Japanese women are so easy going about their husbands going to prostitutes. I spose most blokes think its fantastic and respect them for "understanding men's natural needs" - or some such crap.

I guess thats partly what it is. The whole "as long as he comes home to me" thing. I would cut my husbands dick off and throw it out the window.

[Jack]

As far as I'm concerned BJ is sex. Fingering is sex. But for J-girls it depends. It's sex when it suits them and it's not sex when it doesn't suit them. I had a girl telling me that "I was cheating on her" just because I was communicating by e-mail with another girl. Fuck, only if she knew the real thing what would that have been?

Another girl said she did not want to have sex until we are boyfriend/girlfriend but we did everything doable except penetration. She still claimed we did not have sex so she remained true to her "values".

[Big Booger]

I think it depends... I mean if you get an orgasm... and come... definitely. IF not, well then I just call that "pleasure slurping"

[sublight]

If I get my rocks off, it's sex.

[AssKissinger]

I voted yes but I think blow jobs are more a kind of sex instead of real sex. I think real fucking has a more profound psychological impact. But then again I tend to cum harder in a mouth than I do a cunt. And assholes make me shoot even harder than mouths. But I never met a girl and only assfucked her. It's hard to say how sentimental I'd feel about it a week or two later. I guess I'll never know...

[American Oyaji]

Also, J-Wives feel more strongly about WHO you're cheating with.

My ex once said after I got caught that if it had been a black woman she couldn't forgive me.

So basically, I could bang all the J-girls I wanted and keep it hidden, but as long as I brought home the bacon and she didn't hear about it, she was satisfied.

Thing is, somewhere along the line, her libido kicked back in.

[Tommybar]

Thing is, somewhere along the line, her libido kicked back in.

And that is good for you or somebody(s) else?

[Greji]

I voted yes but I think blow jobs are more a kind of sex instead of real sex. I think real fucking has a more profound psychological impact. But then again I tend to cum harder in a mouth than I do a cunt. And assholes make me shoot even harder than mouths. But I never met a girl and only assfucked her. It's hard to say how sentimental I'd feel about it a week or two later. I guess I'll never know...

Ah, come on AK. You going to question whether or not you would remember a boss three holer? I seriously doubt that!

[blackcat]

not according to an old mate of mine, who got caught by his GF getting head from her best friend in his closet (about lunchtime too LOL)

he said "it was only a head job!"

True story

[Blah Pete]

Are blow jobs sex?

No. Sex is way more expensive !!!!!