compensation for abortion

by **Mike Oxlong** » Tue Mar 17, 2009 8:28 pm

TennoChinko wrote:Definitely agree with the above.

Something smells fishy.

Quick question for the OP...is her name Noriko, by any chance?!

by **rieki** » Tue Mar 17, 2009 9:01 pm

well I paid her 80000 yen, got a receipt and copies of all her medical expenses
then she got a bit hysterical accusing me of "murdering her baby":rolleyes: and I reminded her that it was her idea to get an abortion first, then she said in japan men always make decisions about this matter and that should be held accountable, "I told her I'm not japanese" lol and i'm doing what I can to help, then she told me that she will pray hard and that "her gods will kill me", she got more upset and I started to complain about me to her mother on the phone at this point I hard enough of this nonsense and i bailed. btw her name is Keiko.

by **Iraira** » Tue Mar 17, 2009 9:02 pm

Mike Oxlong wrote:Quick question for the OP...is her name Noriko, by any chance?!

Couldn't be Noriko, she gives it up to everyone, meaning w/o a DNA test of only the white gaijin, there would be no way to know who daddy was.

by **sillygirl** » Tue Mar 17, 2009 9:24 pm

rieki wrote:well I paid her 80000 yen, got a receipt and copies of all her medical expenses
then she got a bit hysterical accusing me of "murdering her baby":rolleyes: and I reminded her that it was her idea to get an abortion first, then she said in japan men always make decisions about this matter and that should be held accountable, "I told her I'm not japanese" lol and i'm doing what I can to help, then she told me that she will pray hard and that "her gods will kill me", she got more upset and I started to complain about me to her mother on the phone at this point I hard enough of this nonsense and i bailed. btw her name is Keiko.

That's pretty decent of you imo, now change your phone number and avoid her like the plague...
....(and bag your pickle next time)

by **Phantom** » Tue Mar 17, 2009 10:47 pm

omae mona wrote:I strongly believe you are being scammed.

Hard-to-believe story #1: The fiance stopped having sex with her 6 months ago. What?!?!? Strange in and of itself. And WHAT A COINCIDENCE... that is just the right timing to stop so they can guarantee a doctor will say you've gotta be the father.

Hard-to-believe story #2: She sent the fiance to talk to you?!?? How many months pregnant is this girl, and was she already engaged at the time you slept with her? I assume she was. She not only admitted to having an affair, but this guy was cool about it and decided to come have a nice one-on-one chat with you? Oh please...

Hard-to-believe story #3: She sent her mother? "Hey Mom, while I was cheating on my fiance, I got pregnant with this gaijin. Will you goconvince him to pay me 500K, because I'm really traumatized about this."

For me #1 is the clincher. This is some kind of an extortion scheme. God help me if I'm wrong. But unless there's a really good explanation for issue #1, then I would even hesitate to pay the medical costs - at least until after you have proof that the abortion procedure was carried out.

Extortion almost for sure, that's gotta be a scam. I can't believe a 35 year old female would immediately tell her fiance (whom she apparently hadn't had sex with in 6 months) she was pregnant to a gaijin. Sending the finace over to talk to you is exactly the way such a scam would work.

Maybe after you move you could send her an apologetic note indicating you had herpes or gonorrhea?

by **Greji** » Tue Mar 17, 2009 10:59 pm

Iraira wrote:Couldn't be Noriko, she gives it up to everyone, meaning w/o a DNA test of only the white gaijin, there would be no way to know who daddy was.

Right, when you're cut with a buzz saw, can you identify the guilty tooth?
:cool:

by **nottu** » Tue Mar 17, 2009 11:28 pm

by **Samurai_Jerk** » Wed Mar 18, 2009 12:22 am

rieki wrote:well I paid her 80000 yen, got a receipt and copies of all her medical expenses
then she got a bit hysterical accusing me of "murdering her baby":rolleyes: and I reminded her that it was her idea to get an abortion first, then she said in japan men always make decisions about this matter and that should be held accountable, "I told her I'm not japanese" lol and i'm doing what I can to help, then she told me that she will pray hard and that "her gods will kill me", she got more upset and I started to complain about me to her mother on the phone at this point I hard enough of this nonsense and i bailed. btw her name is Keiko.

Bro, you just got shook down. I can't believe you gave her any money. Pussy.

by **wuchan** » Wed Mar 18, 2009 12:34 am

Samurai_Jerk wrote:Bro, you just got shook down. I can't believe you gave her any money. Pussy.

The Guru of Gangstar wrote:Word up - games, these girls nowadays they play many
Techniques for gettin your loot, they got plenty
Suck the skin off your dick,
just for some ice and shit
In the beginning theyre polite,
actin all nice and shit
But honey got plans to be pushin your land
When she got you - she goes and fucks your man,
Understand?
you gotta lay down the law. A lot of broads is fraud,
theyll set you up baby pah
Somell try to get you stuck up,
somell fake pregnancy
Most are after the dough, and the fame basically
Yo you cant make a hoe a housewife kid
Pick the wrong chick - could be a lifetime bid
A lot of cats be beefin over these honies
Not me I keep it movin they aint getitn jack from me
Mack these freaks for your own enjoyment
And one love to l we gon stay flamboyant

Aiyyo fellas, you gotta be careful today
Watch out for games that these females play
Cause some break the rules and some dont play fair
You might get caught out there if youre not aware

words to live by.

by **Iraira** » Wed Mar 18, 2009 12:54 am

rieki wrote:well I paid her 80000 yen, got a receipt and copies of all her medical expenses
then she got a bit hysterical accusing me of "murdering her baby":rolleyes: and I reminded her that it was her idea to get an abortion first, then she said in japan men always make decisions about this matter and that should be held accountable, "I told her I'm not japanese" lol and i'm doing what I can to help, then she told me that she will pray hard and that "her gods will kill me", she got more upset and I started to complain about me to her mother on the phone at this point I hard enough of this nonsense and i bailed. btw her name is Keiko.

Ok, it's all done. Consider the 80000 yen as payment for her "abortion". If she or the fiancee try to contact you again, then consider the 80000 yen a "donation".

by **wuchan** » Wed Mar 18, 2009 1:17 am

Iraira wrote:]If the fiancee tries to contact you again, then consider the 80000 yen a "donation".

or kick his bitch face in.

by **Coligny** » Wed Mar 18, 2009 1:38 am

Cyka UchuuJin wrote:i hope every girl you ever try to hit on again tells you the same.

My pleasure... From what I saw, pregnancy scare/blackmail is the weapon of choice for japanese women, to a point where it's borderline indecent. I mean, cats hiss, jwomen say they are pregnant... the frequency of happenstance is nearly the same . So when she put a price on it upfront you know that you might have more chance to have a run for your money with a standard Nigerian scam rather than with her. I would not be surprised if the guy had visit from her and her boyfriend and end up as a news article on mainichi... The more I read about her from this guy the more I think she's at best a nutcase, at worse a scam artist.

It's 2009, it's japan. The people are not the brightest but the country is modern. Contraceptives are plentifull and prescribed without any restrictions aside from the standard health checks. It's politicians on TV who see jwomen as baby factories, not the doctors. Before you make fun of me as an internet specialist on the field. I'm married to an ob-gyn, we live with mum in law (nurse) and Dad in law (ob-gyn too) in their maternity clinic. SO FUCK YEAH I KNOW QUITE A LITTLE ON THE FIELD.

And to finish, i'd rather have women tell me " d'aller me faire foutre " rather than mumbling in engrish.

by **American Oyaji** » Wed Mar 18, 2009 9:44 am

rieki wrote:well I paid her 80000 yen, got a receipt and copies of all her medical expenses
then she got a bit hysterical accusing me of "murdering her baby":rolleyes: and I reminded her that it was her idea to get an abortion first, then she said in japan men always make decisions about this matter and that should be held accountable, "I told her I'm not japanese" lol and i'm doing what I can to help, then she told me that she will pray hard and that "her gods will kill me", she got more upset and I started to complain about me to her mother on the phone at this point I hard enough of this nonsense and i bailed. btw her name is Keiko.

I consider myself a pretty moral person most of the time. But if a chick sends "her man" around to collect money for HER abortion..., I'd tell him to foot the bill and if he darkened my door again, his ass would be impregnated with my foot.

by **rieki** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 12:07 pm

just an update,
this woman called my place of employment and demanded to talk to my boss
' boss to told her basically to f*ck off.
yesterday she send her fiance again to my home, i told him to go f* off, he got pissed, kicked my door and took off, I called the cops, this guy comes back to deliver a lame note(demanding money from me) 30mins later but he didn't know the cops were in my apartment at the time, cops took him aside and questioned about his behavior

. I was told by the cops if he ever returns he will get detained and I could press harassment charges. this morning I went to my local police station and I filed and official complain but I was told it was more of a domestic matter and should get a lawyer:-x . got an appointment to see a lawyer next week.

by **Greji** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 1:56 pm

rieki wrote:just an update,
this woman called my place of employment and demanded to talk to my boss
' boss to told her basically to f*ck off.
yesterday she send her fiance again to my home, i told him to go f* off, he got pissed, kicked my door and took off, I called the cops, this guy comes back to deliver a lame note(demanding money from me) 30mins later but he didn't know the cops were in my apartment at the time, cops took him aside and questioned about his behavior . I was told by the cops if he ever returns he will get detained and I could press harassment charges. this morning I went to my local police station and I filed and official complain but I was told it was more of a domestic matter and should get a lawyer:-x . got an appointment to see a lawyer next week.

Sic'em! If you back off, they'll think they have you on the run. Your lawyer will take care of you!
:cool:

by **GomiGirl** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 2:48 pm

Methinks there is more to this story than what we are hearing.

This is not just my assumption (despite the anonymous red snot comment that somebody left)

I don't think we have full disclosure here.

by **omae mona** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 2:58 pm

GomiGirl wrote:Methinks there is more to this story than what we are hearing.
This is not just my assumption (despite the anonymous red snot comment that somebody left)

I don't think we have full disclosure here.

Earlier I suggested these were professional con artists at work. But they are awfully gutsy if they're calling your employer & even having a run-in with the police. So now I think maybe GomiGirl is onto something.

Rieki, let me ask a question. You originally said you "knocked up this girl". Was the encounter 100% consensual?

(We all assumed it was, but god help us if we've been giving encouraging "go get 'em!" comments to a rapist.....)

by **Ketou** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 3:53 pm

omae mona wrote:Earlier I suggested these were professional con artists at work. But they are awfully gutsy if they're calling your employer & even having a run-in with the police. So now I think maybe GomiGirl is onto something.

Rieki, let me ask a question. You originally said you "knocked up this girl". Was the encounter 100% consensual?

(We all assumed it was, but god help us if we've been giving encouraging "go get 'em!" comments to a rapist.....)

lol.....I don't think a rapist would be asking the police to intervene.
If you cough up once it actually encourages scammers to try harder.

Although if she actually was preggo, and I assume from the doctor visit she was, then paying half for the op is fair enough. Next time they come around I suggest you also ask for compo for having lost a child.

by **wuchan** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 4:40 pm

I would have told him that his girl is a ho and that she gave you the clap.

by **rieki** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 5:07 pm

lol to assumptions...
anyways a little background story for the rest of you...
I know this woman more than 1 year we had a casual relationship nothing more, she knew I was married:p and I told her that I will never divorce my wife, anyways she understood that and we had sex regularly, then I found out recently that she was engaged to marry this spring! I told her that our relationship was over and I didn't want to interfered with her new life but she insisted in seeing me after her marriage, at this point I ignored her emails (10~16 emails a day!) for about 6 weeks that's when she started emailing me about her pregnancy and that I could be the father, at first I thought she wanted to get my attention or that she was lying so I continued to ignored her, couple days later her fiance shows up at my door..blah blah blah you know the rest.

by **Greji** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 5:56 pm

rieki wrote:lol to assumptions...
anyways a little background story for the rest of you...
I know this woman more than 1 year we had a casual relationship nothing more, she knew I was married:p and I told her that I will never divorce my wife, anyways she understood that and we had sex regularly, then I found out recently that she was engaged to marry this spring! I told her that our relationship was over and I didn't want to interfered with her new life but she insisted in seeing me after her marriage, at this point I ignored her emails (10~16 emails a day!) for about 6 weeks that's when she started emailing me about her pregnancy and that I could be the father, at first I thought she wanted to get my attention or that she was lying so I continued to ignored her, couple days later her fiance shows up at my door..blah blah blah you know the rest.

That smells to high heaven of a scam. There have been tons of them that you could just which the names to the scenario and they would read the same. You better off with the lawyer and police.....
:cool:

by **Mike Oxlong** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 6:27 pm

Good to be reminded to play safe out there...

by **Samurai_Jerk** » Fri Mar 27, 2009 7:53 pm

I don't understand why a married guy in Japan would let a girl know where he lives. Shit, why even date. There is plenty of one night stand at the love hotel or pro action to keep you busy and that shit won't follow you home.

by **nottu** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 2:55 am

by **Cyka UchuuJin** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 9:02 am

Samurai_Jerk wrote:I don't understand why a married guy in Japan would let a girl know where he lives. Shit, why even date. There is plenty of one night stand at the love hotel or pro action to keep you busy and that shit won't follow you home.

because he's yet another arrogant braintrust here that thinks he can do anything.

by **Mike Oxlong** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 3:04 pm

Reminds me of something...

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by **Greji** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 3:11 pm

Cyka UchuuJin wrote:because he's yet another arrogant braintrust here that thinks he can do anything.

Ahhh. you called?
:cool:

by **rieki** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 6:16 pm

Cyka UchuuJin wrote:because he's yet another arrogant braintrust here that thinks he can do anything.

haha....

don't hate the playa hate the game!, and you know there's plenty game in tokyo.

today I made the mistake of meeting her again:doh: :doh:

she wanted me to pay 2010yen for misc abortion bills, she had a receipt, so I meet her in shibuya(outside starbucks), she wanted to give me a silly speech about how i scared her for life and that its all my fault blah blah.... once again I reminded her that the abortion was her decision not mine, she got pissed lol and she tried to slapped and kick me (picture this Im 5'10 she's 5'2:rolleyes:) haha lmao, told her I'm calling the cops and she fled. I ain't paying sh*t to her! ever!, should I report this little incident to the cops too?

by **Cyka UchuuJin** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 6:24 pm

rieki wrote:
Cyka UchuuJin wrote:because he's yet another arrogant braintrust here that thinks he can do anything.

haha.... don't hate the playa hate the game!, and you know there's plenty game in tokyo.

today I made the mistake of meeting her again:doh:
she wanted me to pay 2010yen for misc abortion bills, she had a receipt, so I meet her in shibuya(outside starbucks), she wanted to give me a silly speech about how i scared her for life and that its all my fault blah blah.... once again I reminded her that the abortion was her decision not mine, she got pissed lol and she tried to slapped and kick me (picture this Im 5'10 she's 5'2:rolleyes:) haha lmao, told her I'm calling the cops and she fled. I ain't paying sh*t to her! ever!, should I report this little incident to the cops too?

ok, so let me get this straight...

you're married and you're fucking around. you knock up some other girl and then are a total dickhead to her. she knows where you live and sends her fiance/pimp/thug. you give her some money and tell her to fuck off. then you make the mistake of seeing her AGAIN?

what the fuck is wrong with you? are you totally retarded?

it's not the game that i hate, i'm quite sure it's the player that needs to be benched permanently.

by **rieki** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 6:45 pm

Cyka UchuuJin wrote:
ok, so let me get this straight...

you're married and you're fucking around. you knock up some other girl and then are a total dickhead to her. she knows where you live and sends her fiance/pimp/thug. you give her some money and tell her to fuck off. then you make the mistake of seeing her AGAIN?

what the fuck is wrong with you? are you totally retarded?

it's not the game that i hate, i'm quite sure it's the player that needs to be benched permanently.

haha.....
I'm just a man of my word! and I had good intention of paying my sharer and/or responsibility even tho the kid might not be mine.
my mistake was misjudging this fvking crazy physo japanese woman!

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