In Japan 2 months and still no girlfriend.

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

[GomiGirl]

Have you thought about changing your deodorant? Perhaps the desperation fumes are scaring the girls off?

Sheesh.. you are 23.. just date a heap of girls of all different types. Variety is the spice of life. Don't wait for the "perfect one" as she may not be exactly what you need...

Rather than looking for a girlfriend.. how about you ask somebody (or many) out for a coffee and a chat and stop putting too much pressure on the situation...

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

Have you thought about changing your deodorant? Perhaps the desperation fumes are scaring the girls off?

My deodorant actualy is a problem I ran out of my fave and had to settle for some strange Gadspey Spray on Power Citrus crap. So I have then to mask that smell with Higher By Dior(good enough for you?).

Sheesh.. you are 23.. just date a heap of girls of all different types. Variety is the spice of life. Don't wait for the "perfect one" as she may not be exactly what you need...

You might think its strange but I dont like the idea of dating a load of girls. Especial if one of us really likes the other I wouldnt like either of us to be hurt. A problem that I have found so far even if I ask a Japanes girl to meet after she presumes I mean we are Boyfriend and Girlfriend at that point. I know it would be easier to understand if I asked a Western Girl.

All I am asking is where is there a good place to meet the group of girls i was talking about. Is there like different clubs for different music tastes. I dont like fashionable clubs all the oldies looking to get hitched speek to me Blah I am looking for a fun Girlfriend i dont want to be planing on how much I should be spending on a Debeers.

Although if I was to get a girl a ring it would have to be a Square Cut

[oyajikun]

You should have no problem here. I actually quit dating Japanese women because of the fact that they all want to get married without even taking the time to get to know me..

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

You should have no problem here. I actually quit dating Japanese women because of the fact that they all want to get married without even taking the time to get to know me..

Like I know and its always the same type. Educated currently employed and has a valintino bag.

Has Anybody even had an Otaku or Kogaru girlfriend i would love one much more interesting but you cant invite them to company parties with out getting some strange looks.

[ramchop]

Has Anybody even had an Otaku or Kogaru girlfriend i would love one much more interesting...

And just what is it about them that makes them more interesting?

Is it the hentai/manga images that drew you to Japan? Feeling a little disillusioned that your fantasies are far from reality?

Three step program for otaku happiness:
1) Go to Harajuku, buy a sailor suit.
2) Go to Kabukicho, buy a rubber doll.
3) Go home.

[AssKissinger]

Anyway all I am asking is does anybody know any place I can meet those kind of girls socially in roppongi or shibuya or similar.

Are you looking for a girl or an STD? Plus, those girls and their English? From the way you write, I wouldn't be surprised if they're uncomfortable because their English is actually better than yours. But if you want one of those freaky looking super skinny chicks learn some Japanese and start approaching them. Try this one, "Kimi no manko ga ikura desu ka".

[Neo-Rio]

http://www.pickupguide.com

[oyajikun]

My advice is to stay away from dating Japanese women unless your looking to add notches to your bed post or to pull all of your hair out. Meet a nice Canadian flight attendant or something..

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

www.pickupguide.com

Cool Site I am reading it as I am waiting to get flamed for my last comments lol.

[ramchop]

[Shibuya Me]

Man! After reading this...I feel ugly! No women ever give me
their numbers, or even look at me! I don't stink and I am okay
looking!

You guys must have this 007 thing going on!

Maybe you guys should write a book for guys like me instead
of crying about not having sex 40 times a day!

What do you guys do?! Please clue me in! Girls just look at me and
I see in their eyes....A FOREIGNER!

Then they run as fast as they can!

Sometimes even faster than me!

I joke. But man! I wish I had your problems with
women.

Maybe I am shy....

[AssKissinger]

If you read the full post you would might notice I am not promiscuous.

It's not the numbers I'm thinking about it's location:

roppongi or shibuya or similar

As far as knocking your English that was lame. Sorry.

Girls just look at me and
I see in their eyes....A FOREIGNER!

Dude, that's your ticket in, a reaction. That's your chance to approach. I know that chicks aren't really running away either. So when you get that second "Gaijin da!" glance smile and say, "Haro". You got nothing to lose and quite frankly the sweetest thing in the world to gain.

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

Yes I guess your weird fetishes can be described as a mere preference. You didn't however state why they're "so much more interesting". You whinge about the money obsessed label carrying older women... do you realise how much money the freaks you're into spend on clothes?

Yeah I realise how much money they put into it. About the same as I put into buying shit I like. I probably like them for the same reason as 50% of the Japanese population like Kogaru.

But hey, you're young. Enjoy it while you can.... oh no wait... You're not enjoying it, because you can't. This whole thread is about how you're not getting any. Give us an update in a couple more months, I suspect you'll sound even more sad and desperate then.

I dont have much to worry about in getting women, I have 10 phone numbers of girls I could shag this minute. I just chose not to. I dont wanna sleep with some slag that is the Japanese national gaijin bicycle.

[Shibuya Me]

Okay...I understand my problem.

I'm not shy....I'm just honest.
No wonder I never get all the great
sex you get.

mmmmmm.

Learn to lie.

Got it.

[Shibuya Me]

Dude, that's your ticket in, a reaction. That's your chance to approach. I know that chicks aren't really running away either. So when you get that second "Gaijin da!" glance smile and say, "Haro". You got nothing to lose and quite frankly the sweetest thing in the world to gain.


So my question is....

Do these girls like or dislike foreigners?

I read this site everyday and I read how much Japanese people hate
foreigners....but the girls don't?

What gives?

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

:D

Man! After reading this...I feel ugly! No women ever give me
their numbers, or even look at me! I don't stink and I am okay
looking!

You guys must have this 007 thing going on!

Maybe you guys should write a book for guys like me instead
of crying about not having sex 40 times a day!

What do you guys do?! Please clue me in! Girls just look at me and
I see in their eyes....A FOREIGNER!

Then they run as fast as they can!

Sometimes even faster than me!

I joke. But man! I wish I had your problems with
women.

Maybe I am shy....

Well I am ok looking, I am 6'2 and it goes down well in Japan. When I have been out girls sometimes just walk up and talk to me I have to make no effort at all. Especialy if they think you are drunk then they are not so worried about their English.

All I wanted to know from this post was where is a good place to go to find a particular type of girl. If you just want the secretary (just not my scene) looking type they are everywhere.

If the worst comes to the worst you could always go down to shibuya's red light district and pick a girl up for 10000 yen

[Shibuya Me]

Delete this please

[AssKissinger]

Do these girls like or dislike foreigners?

Look, there are tens of millions of Japanese chicks. Some hate foreigners, some love foreigners, some will never screw any foreigner, some will screw every foreign guy she can. Again, the advantage here is that you get a reaction and you get attention. It's as simple as this: If you wanna get laid exploit it.

[Shibuya Me]

I love to see Japanese high school girls...but I would never pay.

I have a girlfriend already. But met in America. I am not looking
for a girl...just hear all these stories about how all you 007 guys
meet girls left and right....and I do joke...but girls just look at me.

They might be thinking I am good looking. But they dont ever
walk up to me and flirt.

Maybe I am old?

[Naniwan Kid]

Who said all Japanese hate foreigners? I had about three single years in Japan, and didn't have much to complain about in the girl department. I would get introductions from friends, or just go to the clubs and bars. You can be pretty sure that girls that go to gaijin clubs want to meet gaijin. We got bored with that, so started going to harder-to-access Japanese clubs...not as much success, but some of these places looked like they were made in 2026.

Mistakes foreigners make:

1) Smile too much.

2) Act too desperate. Don't start asking for numbers within 10 minutes.

3) Talk about themselves too much.

4) Try to have a conversation in Japanese when the girl can speak English, and they can't really speak Japanese (or the opposite: make the girl girl struggle in English when they can actually speak Japanese)

5) PUSHY . PUSHY. PUSHY. If a girl is being shy, coy, sly, secretive, etc...it means she isn't interested. Grab a clue and move on.

I hope this helps.....

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

So my question is....

Do these girls like or dislike foreigners?

I read this site everyday and I read how much Japanese people hate
foreigners....but the girls don't?

What gives?

Despite some hating foreigners, its difficult some are closed minded and think that the politics of the country where a person defines the person. Which is bull the reason i left Europe I hate the political situation and the entire lifestyle. If they hate westerners so mush why do they import everything western in favour of some better cheaper Japanese products. Like shitty mini's for the same price as the latest Skyline?

The foreigners they hate the most in the media are the Coreans for lots of reasons.

Some female students told me that its most Japanese girls dreams of having an international relationship (mostly for money but also because western men dot treat them as badly as Japanese men).

[Shibuya Me]

Well. I must be shy. But thanks for the information.

Desperate? mmmmmm......

That may be me.

Anyway...thanks!

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

1) Smile too much.
2) Act too desperate. Don't start asking for numbers within 10 minutes.
3) Talk about themselves too much.
4) Try to have a conversation in Japanese when the girl can speak English, and they can't really speak Japanese (or the opposite: make the girl girl struggle in English when they can actually speak Japanese)
5) PUSHY . PUSHY. PUSHY. If a girl is being shy, coy, sly, secretive, etc...it means she isn't interested. Grab a clue and move on.
I hope this helps.....

Good advice I had a bad problem when I didnt notice that my last girlfriend was being shy coy etc. she was the biggest head f#cker ever. If any girl starts playing mind games with me I just forget about it I really couldnt give a shit how shy she pretends to be. She either wants to be in a relationship or not it there is a reall problem we can work it out but when they just want to test the water get rid of them as soon as possible.

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

So nobody got any advice on what clubes to go to for a 23 yo?

[Naniwan Kid]

It depends where you are in Japan......though I have been out of the scene for a while.....

[NeoNecroNomiCron]

[quote="&quot"]It depends where you are in Japan......though I have been out of the scene for a while.....

[quote]

Ah I have already been there the shibuya one. But I was with a group so 70% were people I already know. It was a pretty fun place though and the girls working there are pretty hot themselves. As there was a lot of other gaijin the locals wernt speeking much.

[f3likx]

Did I see you on the penny arcade forums...

[Naniwan Kid]

Good advice I had a bad problem when I didnt notice that my last girlfriend was being shy coy etc. she was the biggest head f#cker ever. If any girl starts playing mind games with me I just forget about it I really couldnt give a shit how shy she pretends to be.

It took me a while to figure out. A lot of F.G.s assume Japanese women are morons (as they talk to you, when white chicks wouldn't back home), and certainly there are some, but many of them ACT like idiots because it is attractive to men. They can play the idiot game for as long as they like, and some are professionals at it. Don't ever ASSUME you have an in, or things are going right.

I remember one night at Isn't It Sannomiya, getting hooked up around 4 am, and her telling me her brother would pick us up and take us back home. I fell asleep in the car, and was FARTHER IN THE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE than I had ever been. It turns out she was using me to make another guy jealous. I got our of her car, asked where the nearest train station was (at this point they were running) and took the longest, lonliest train ride home ever. But I learned something....