Book Tells Japanese Guys How To get Foreign Girls

[Mulboyne]

Mieko Mochizuki Swartz has written this book in Japanese. There's an information page in English but this note explains why:

We only have this informational page in English because the US-based store system requires us to have it. This page is not meant to invite non-Japanese speakers to purchase the book

Anyway, here's the blurb:

The title, "Nihonjin no Otoko wa Motenai", means Japanese guys aren't popular. Japanese guys aren't the most popular creatures on earth, when it comes to romance. Sad but true.

But why?

Because they are almost always quiet and shy?
Because they have difficulty asking girls out?

Part of it is language, but the other part is cultural.

Perfectly decent, intelligent guys in the Japanese context may appear rude, awkward, or plain inappropriate in Western romantic situations. The Japanese culture does not train these guys to deal with girls with cultural backgrounds different from their own.

The author is a woman, a bilingual, bicultural Japanese national, who grew up going in and out of Japan every few years, and is happily married to an American. In this book, she has poured in her personal experience, as well as the vast information she has gained from talking to other women, Japanese or otherwise. Girls talk. Men don't. Believe me, we know more...more...

[gomichild]

Step 1: Don't buy this book and have it on your bookshelf.

[Taro Toporific]

Mieko Mochizuki Swartz has written this book in Japanese. There's an information page in English

She also has version for Japanese ladies (who really don't need such "help").

[INDENT]
Q) Do you have "female version" is also out?

I'm out. So many demands. For the women's title, "Song to the Japanese woman" is. Here I have presented please.

"Japanese women to the Sons."

EMBIGGEN.[/INDENT]

[Greji]

Step 1: Don't buy this book and have it on your bookshelf.

Too late. Take just bought out Amazon's entire stock....

[Iraira]

A Jewish-Japanese chick....'Swartz'...Mochizuki can't even spell it right...penning manga on how J-guys can bang Wendy Whitebread?

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

Picking up girls? It's simple....$$$$$

[Yokohammer]

Picking up girls? It's simple....$$$$$

Now there's a man who truly understands women!
Of course it helps if you're tall, handsome, and a brilliant conversationalist, but $$$$$ trumps the lot.

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

Now there's a man who truly understands women!
Of course it helps if you're tall, handsome, and a brilliant conversationalist, but $$$$$ trumps the lot.

Actually, to be really honest and after four failed marriages, I've finally also learned it helps to worship the cunt.
I used to have $$$$$$, but now I don't have anything. Nonetheless, I've managed to snare the greatest woman on earth and kept her utterly smitten nonetheless by devoting myself to pleasuring her cunt in every way possible.

[Iraira]

Nonetheless, I've managed to snare the greatest woman on earth and kept her utterly smitten nonetheless by devoting myself to pleasuring her cunt in every way possible.

Cough once if she was looking over your shoulder as you wrote that.

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

Uhughm, uhugh.

[GomiGirl]

Picking up girls? It's simple....$$$$$

Well perhaps if you are just talking about picking up - there are few people who do not have a price for a pick-up if that is the name of the game that both are playing.. but is this the secret behind a good relationship? It is never this simple - there is no formula as there are no two situations the same.

I am happy as the proverbial and our relationship is nothing about money. Hubbalicious seems pretty happy too.

If the relationship starts off as this sort of transaction then it will end in a return or at the very least, post purchase dissonance.

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

Sorry if I offended GG.
I realize there are plenty of decent people out there like yourself. And if you guys have found happiness together regardless of money, all the best to you.
Unfortunately, my experience has showed me that ultimately the most important things for women in a relationship are stability and security. And that inevitably means $$$$$$$ (though that could say a lot about me as a person, too.)

[Greji]

Sorry if I offended GG.

Don't worry Hair. She's only a part-time prude. I'm with you. Money won't buy everything, but it'll sure rent what's left over....

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

Everybody has a price....

[Catoneinutica]

Everybody has a price....

That they do. And the price of J-chix has been reduced from "Strong Buy" to "Hold" based on the recommendation of leading analysts. Or at least that's been my conclusion based on the quality of White Guy they seem to be able to pull in the couples you see around Tokyo.

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

That they do. And the price of J-chix has been reduced from "Strong Buy" to "Hold" based on the recommendation of leading analysts. Or at least that's been my conclusion based on the quality of White Guy they seem to be able to pull in the couples you see around Tokyo.

As one of those over-inflated White Guy assets Japanese female investors dabble in (all too infrequently), I can express no desire other than to become a leading anal-yst...especially if it's with Miss Universe Japan.

[GomiGirl]

Sorry if I offended GG.

Nah- takes heaps more than that to offend me. You are all good matey.

I just wanted to point out the difference between the pick-up merry go round, gold-digger circuit and something that is a relationship.

I have seen the game, played the game and won and lost the game. But this is a far cry from how my current situation started and progressed.

In a pick-up situation, the war paint goes on, the battle lines are drawn, lies are told and people are rarely behaving as they truly are. This is the money game and it is out there for sure. But too many people confuse this farce with what is real and then they get all confused when things inevitably fall apart.

I realize there are plenty of decent people out there like yourself. And if you guys have found happiness together regardless of money, all the best to you.

Thank you, but remember that I am no stranger to divorce either. Plus it took a heap of time and money and personal mistakes for me to learn what I know now. But now that I am late 30's I am glad to know it now finally. I am sure things will change moving forward but as long as I am not holding onto a fake reality, then I am sure we can roll with it.

Unfortunately, my experience has showed me that ultimately the most important things for women in a relationship are stability and security. And that inevitably means $$$$$$$ (though that could say a lot about me as a person, too.)

Could also say more about the sort of women that are out there. I will not be the first person to defend the worst of my gender. I have seen some pretty foul behaviour from "princesses". It is no wonder that so many relationships are screwed up.

[Samurai_Jerk]

Though I completely agree with SDH on the money point, it's amazing just how extreme the exceptions to the rule can be. It seems like the fatter, drunker, and broker I get, the more my girl is determined to keep me. I guess she's like a lot of girls and likes a work in progress. I bet that if I slimmed down to what I weighed 10 years ago, quit drinking, and actually started making money again, she'd get bored and leave.

I think there are basically two types of women: gold digging whores and gluttons for punishment. Mine must be a hard M.

[Greji]

I have seen some pretty foul behaviour from "princesses". It is no wonder that so many relationships are screwed up.

Damn! Ya'll are getting really serious about this shit! I just want to tap it lightly and sneak out the door. My idea of a long term relationship is something that doesn't last into happy hour the next afternoon....

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

Damn! Ya'll are getting really serious about this shit! I just want to tap it lightly and sneak out the door. My idea of a long term relationship is something that doesn't last into happy hour the next afternoon....

Geez, what a glutton for punishment.
My theory is to work on what I call the Jesus Christ Theory...resurrect through the Second Cumming and then leave them worshiping you for life.

[Greji]

Geez, what a glutton for punishment.
My theory is to work on what I call the Jesus Christ Theory...resurrect through the Second Cumming and then leave them worshiping you for life.

That'll work, as long as it is before the next happy hour....

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

Though I completely agree with SDH on the money point, it's amazing just how extreme the exceptions to the rule can be. It seems like the fatter, drunker, and broker I get, the more my girl is determined to keep me. I guess she's like a lot of girls and likes a work in progress. I bet that if I slimmed down to what I weighed 10 years ago, quit drinking, and actually started making money again, she'd get bored and leave.

I think there are basically two types of women: gold digging whores and gluttons for punishment. Mine must be a hard M.

While I'm glad GG has found the Hubbylicious of her dreams (I hope he's not as big an arsehole as I am) and SJ's squeeze seems happy, I have given up hope of ever being able to comprehend women.
Now, if there's someone I fancy, I tell her I'm utterly penniless and worthless, but I'm absolutely wonderful in the sack and a totally devoted cunnilinguist, so if she'll pay for the LH I'll give her an experience she'll never forget. I strike out about 90% of the time (and get struck a lot of the time, too), but the remaining 10% of occasions are exquisite. And I have nothing on my conscience either because I have literally laid it out all before her.

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

That'll work, as long as it is before the next happy hour....

I envy you...the older I get, the more Happy Hours and turning into Mildly Pleasant Minutes.

[Greji]

I envy you...the older I get, the more Happy Hours and turning into Mildly Pleasant Minutes.

Hey, don't turn down Happy Hours. There's a lot of stuff to be had if ya goes for it. I got tired of sitting on a branch like a buzzard waiting for something to die. Now and then you just gotta fly down and kill something....

[Screwed-down Hairdo]

Now and then you just gotta fly down and kill something....

I almost invariably do...unfortunately, what gets killed almost always turns out to be whatever sexual desire they may have had in the first place.

[Greji]

I almost invariably do...unfortunately, what gets killed almost always turns out to be whatever sexual desire they may have had in the first place.

Who cares.... Ya just picks 'em up off the bar stool, drops 'em the floor and if they leave a wet spot, take 'em home.....

[IparryU]

Who cares.... Ya just picks 'em up off the bar stool, drops 'em the floor and if they leave a wet spot, take 'em home.....

Noted and will use that tactic for now on:kanpai:

I myself am not the little bull who chases down the heffers. I am like the pappa bull who sits at the bar, waits for the heffers to come, then out the door and back in time to get last call.

not saying it works all the time, but with your advise, i can save more time and the BS 15 minute talk.