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Pioneering the trend for divorce ceremonies

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Pioneering the trend for divorce ceremonies

Postby Mike Oxlong » Wed Jun 23, 2010 1:38 pm

[SIZE="5"]Tokyo sees rise in 'divorce ceremonies'[/SIZE]
As Japan's divorce rate soars, couples in Tokyo are ending their marriages with as much care as they began them.
Saori Teshima had long dreamt of the moment. Standing nervously next to her smartly-suited partner in front of friends and loved ones, a sparkling ring appeared before her.

But contrary to conventional wedding rules, the man at Saori's side did not slip the ring lovingly onto her left hand before sealing their union with a kiss.

Instead, the pair were handed a hammer - which they held together as they proceeded to smash the ring to symbolise the end of their five-year marriage.

So goes another divorce ceremony - a bizarre, but increasingly popular ritual among Japanese couples, who choose to end their marriages with the same pomp and ceremony with which they began them.

From drinking toasts to never seeing each other again, through to symbolic rides in separate rickshaws to reflect the start of a new journey, the ceremonies consist of a string of symbolic acts to mark the definitive end of a marriage.

Their introduction is timely: more than 251,000 divorces took place in Japan in 2008, a figure blamed partly on the poor economic climate and the end of the salaryman-led family units which used to be the bedrock of much of Japanese life.

Yet with divorce still something of a taboo in Japanese society, the ceremonies have caught on as a way to publicly formalise the separation in a way that is socially acceptable to friends and family...
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Postby American Oyaji » Wed Jun 23, 2010 6:45 pm

Only in Japan
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Postby Samurai_Jerk » Thu Jun 24, 2010 1:16 pm

American Oyaji wrote:Only in Japan



Uhhhh ... this has been a growing trend in the US for years.
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Postby American Oyaji » Thu Jun 24, 2010 1:42 pm

Samurai_Jerk wrote:Uhhhh ... this has been a growing trend in the US for years.


Bull! Really? This is the first I've heard of anything like this. I've heard of divorce parties, but not actual divorce ceremonies.
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Postby Midwinter » Thu Jun 24, 2010 3:43 pm

Mike Oxlong wrote:[SIZE="5"]Tokyo sees rise in 'divorce ceremonies'[/SIZE]
Yet with divorce still something of a taboo in Japanese society, the ceremonies have caught on as a way to publicly formalise the separation in a way that is socially acceptable to friends and family...


Man, if only a ceremony with friends and family was enough to remove ALL social taboos. Just think of the potential...
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Postby Kanchou » Sun Jun 27, 2010 7:44 am

Abortion ceremonies?

Oh wait, this is Japan...
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Postby Christoff » Sun Jun 27, 2010 9:23 am

Kanchou wrote:Abortion ceremonies?

Oh wait, this is Japan...


This is the kind of comment I expect to come take's reply... I know I often take it too far but this was just in bad taste, like natto, only worse
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Postby Samurai_Jerk » Sun Jun 27, 2010 8:13 pm

Christoff wrote:This is the kind of comment I expect to come take's reply... I know I often take it too far but this was just in bad taste, like natto, only worse


They do have abortion ceremonies here at Buddhist temples. Not celebrations but a kind of mini-funeral plus penance for the couple's "sin" of abortion.
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Postby Samurai_Jerk » Sun Jun 27, 2010 8:15 pm

American Oyaji wrote:Bull! Really? This is the first I've heard of anything like this. I've heard of divorce parties, but not actual divorce ceremonies.


Yeah, I saw stories on the news at least 5 years ago.
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Postby Kanchou » Mon Jun 28, 2010 7:41 am

Abortions don't have half the social stigma in Asia as they do in America. This is a fact.

I wasn't suggesting people should celebrate abortions, simply that doing away with the stigma would be uncessesary.
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Postby prolly » Mon Jun 28, 2010 8:56 am

this comes across as more of a marketing-pitch-disguised-as-news-article than anything else. giving the illusion of normalizing (and removing any trace of disappointment, ill will, or basic human feelings) the failure of a relationship; often when a relationship ends both people are miserable, or one is much more miserable than the other.
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Postby Christoff » Mon Jun 28, 2010 9:30 am

my bad
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