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Japan: Magnet for Losers

Groovin' in the Gaijin Gulag
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Postby McTojo » Tue Oct 19, 2010 10:41 pm

nottu wrote:Given the way you feel about Japan and the economic and culturally limiting factors for foreigners, you would have to be very, very fortunate for things to work out well for you in Japan. Since you also state that you are young, 31 years old, and have good prospects in your home country, the question is -
What are you waiting for?
The wife knew what she was getting into marrying a foreigner. Tell her to get her ass in gear and start packing.
Otherwise, you'll end up in a bitter, dead end situation in Saitama, spending your evenings complaining about Japanese racism on the Internet.


I have a few points for you:


First, you've been living in and out of Japan consecutively four times, that alone speaks volumes on your resume. The moment you have gaps on your CV it looks bad from the employers point of view. But, since, according to you, you have good prospects going for you back at home, and if you're dead certain about that then the next question you need to ask yourself is this:


1) Are you married because you've found the love of your life, or are you purely career driven whereby marriage is more of convenience than life long commitment to someone you love? Either way there's going to be a sacrifice. That's why it's called love/marriage. Your wife will never choose you over her parents especially since she's the only child, especially since now that her mother is widowed. If you choose to return to your home country to pursue your career goals, and she's not happy that she had to go against traditional family values of taking care of parents, then she's not going to feel happy.

2) You can make home anywhere. That's one of the talents men have, given time and patience they can get used to living anywhere, even the ones that bitch and moan all day.

3) You will not win over family, unless the circumstances are extremely rare and she absolutely hates her parents, which in this case seems like she doesn't.

4) I think you're an idiot for putting career ahead of a woman you chose to marry! You have to be naive to think that things would've worked with the two of you living in your country without taking into consideration the possibility of some kind of misfortune happening.

5) Had you been more selfish in the beginning you could've worked towards your career goals first then married her after you established yourself. The fact that you were willing to even come back to her hometown, not once but four times, indicated in her own mind that you were willing to forego your illustrious career back home - something you clearly never had going in the first place. Just bullshit is all it is.

6) I knew another Jack A$$ like you who married a J bird that he took back to the States because he felt that he had to get back in the job market. He was unemployed for two years! Had to move back in with family and work his ass off just to make ends meet. He was commuting back and forth to work four hours each way.

The career.....what career?
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Postby BigInJapan » Wed Oct 20, 2010 12:06 am

McTojo wrote:
  • I think you're an idiot...
  • You have to be naive...
  • Just bullshit is all it is.
  • I knew another Jack A$$ like you...

    These were a few points for you? I'm sure he will listen to your sage advice...:wall:

    McTojo wrote:The career.....what career?

    I'm pretty sure that whatever his career is, it must pale in comparison to such an illustrious sounding one as a self-styled cultural immersions instructor by trade and a life transitions counselor, like yourself...
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    Postby yarichin01 » Wed Oct 20, 2010 12:35 am

    BigInJapan wrote:These were a few points for you? I'm sure he will listen to your sage advice...:wall:


    I'm pretty sure that whatever his career is, it must pale in comparison to such an illustrious sounding one as a self-styled cultural immersions instructor by trade and a life transitions counselor, like yourself...


    Its cool, everyone is entitled to their opinion regardless of lack reading comprehension.
    These are the facts of the situation:
    -Since I entered Uni at 19 I have either worked/lived in Japan or been a student/ graduate teaching fellow/ research assistant.
    -I spent 2 years as a JET(in Iwate) and 1 year in edutainment (in Tokyo) consecutively.
    - I met my wife in the US over 10 years ago but didn't get involved with her until a few years ago. I never lived in her hometown until now.
    - My wife has lived in the US for more than 12 years and has made her career there. I didn't ''take a J bird back to the states''
    - I am selfish, this is a negative trait I possess. My wife knew that. However I have clearly stated I WILL NOT leave my wife;I am just afraid of the consequences of staying in this situation.
    - My wife told me the other day she knows she has to return as her employer told her that they will have to find a permanent replacement if she does not. So the situation is partly resolved.
    Thanks for the responses!
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    Postby Yokohammer » Wed Oct 20, 2010 7:50 am

    yarichin01 wrote:My wife told me the other day she knows she has to return as her employer told her that they will have to find a permanent replacement if she does not. So the situation is partly resolved.

    Lucky break! So as long as she doesn't decide that looking after mom is more important than career you're on your way.

    Still, I'd keep my fingers crossed at least until your flight reservations are made.
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    Postby nottu » Wed Oct 20, 2010 8:30 am

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    Postby IparryU » Wed Oct 20, 2010 9:16 am

    nottu wrote:So how about those commuting pics on the scooter with the helmet and glasses?

    Still waitin for those... when are they commin dammit!
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    Postby American Oyaji » Wed Oct 20, 2010 11:18 am

    latinoinjapan wrote:I forgot to mention the 30-some-year-old Englidh-teaching Bostonian "pick-up artist" who especialized in shagging obachans...he'd screw 2-3 a day until he messed with the wife of a small time yakuza and got the shit beaten out of him so hard he ended up in hospital and had to move cities...he wrote to the US embassy asking for help...like they'd give a fuck....what goes around , comes around....


    Hmmmm. Been there done that. But in my case, the guy paid me to keep doing what I was doing.
    I will not abide ignorant intolerance just for the sake of getting along.
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    Postby Greji » Wed Oct 20, 2010 11:25 am

    McTojo wrote:6) I knew another Jack A$$


    Rush Limbaugh recently said Obama was a Jack Ass. Does that mean nottu is Obama? All this time I though he was a Republican.

    Or could you be Limbaugh in drag?

    The plot thickens....
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    Postby McTojo » Wed Oct 20, 2010 12:27 pm

    IparryU wrote:Still waitin for those... when are they commin dammit!


    I have pictures of my bike, but not me on it. I have a seperate pic of me wearing my black German SS helmet and skull mask. I wasn't able to snap a pic of me fully decorated; my arms weren't long enough, and nobody was dumb enough to snap a pic for me of me.
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    Postby rooboy » Wed Oct 20, 2010 2:21 pm

    McTojo wrote:6) I knew another Jack A$$ like you who married a J bird that he took back to the States because he felt that he had to get back in the job market. He was unemployed for two years! Had to move back in with family and work his ass off just to make ends meet. He was commuting back and forth to work four hours each way.

    The career.....what career?



    That's you, innit? On gaijinpot you once posted that you had a wife in the US and you smacked her around. :shakeh: Or was that before you came to Japan?

    But I absolutely agree with the last 4 words of your post!:banana:
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    Postby rooboy » Wed Oct 20, 2010 2:24 pm

    [quote="McTojo"]I have pictures of my bike, but not me on it. I have a seperate pic of me wearing my black German SS helmet and skull mask. I wasn't able to snap a pic of me fully decorated]

    Do ya have another photo of yet another Japanese jukujo or others taken somewhere from the net that you've passed off as the J ladies you're supposedly fucking or have fucked?:liar:
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    Postby nottu » Wed Oct 20, 2010 2:47 pm

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    Postby IparryU » Wed Oct 20, 2010 3:19 pm

    nottu wrote:Those would be great if you could post them in the meantime. Then, a follow up video of you on your bike interacting with J folks would be greatly appreciated.
    Thanks in advance.

    I will take video if you arrange time with me.

    hell, ill even take picturs of McToejam and all.

    I just hope you are cool in person and could sit down and drink a few... will need to after i take them pics...

    so when?
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    Postby Screwed Up Eyes » Wed Oct 20, 2010 4:39 pm

    McTojo wrote:my arms weren't long enough, and nobody was dumb enough to snap a pic for me of me.


    Wow! That comes as an enormous surprise...I'd have thought that would never have been a problem for you as it seems your arms are long enough for you to always be dragging your knuckles along the ground...
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    Postby McTojo » Wed Oct 20, 2010 5:32 pm

    rooboy wrote:Do ya have another photo of yet another Japanese jukujo or others taken somewhere from the net that you've passed off as the J ladies you're supposedly fucking or have fucked?:liar:


    Look, I'm only trying to save Japan, alright? I don't need to hear that chit. Yeah, some of the sake pictures have photos of women that I haven't fucked. If I were fucking them, and am still in touch with them, then of course I'm not going to post pics of them on the fucking a net! You're just jealous cause' I have a larger Jukujo selection than you. Morever, my penis is bigger than yours!
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    Postby IparryU » Wed Oct 20, 2010 7:01 pm

    Screwed Up Eyes wrote:Wow! That comes as an enormous surprise...I'd have thought that would never have been a problem for you as it seems your arms are long enough for you to always be dragging your knuckles along the ground...

    you mean like dis gay down here?
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    Postby Screwed Up Eyes » Thu Oct 21, 2010 2:59 am

    McTojo wrote:Look, I'm only trying to save Japan, alright?


    I know a wonderful Japanese tradition you could uphold and bring joy to large numbers of people...seppuku.
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    Postby Cyka UchuuJin » Thu Oct 21, 2010 3:57 am

    Screwed Up Eyes wrote:I know a wonderful Japanese tradition you could uphold and bring joy to large numbers of people...seppuku.


    You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Screwed Up Eyes again.
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    Postby nottu » Thu Oct 21, 2010 6:03 am

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    Postby IparryU » Thu Oct 21, 2010 9:23 am

    nottu wrote:@McTojo
    Don't forget to post the pics and vids.
    Thanks.

    knock

    hurry the fug up... not getting any younger here...

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    Postby Greji » Thu Oct 21, 2010 10:49 am

    McTojo wrote:Morever, my penis is bigger than yours!


    Who you talking to about being a meat packer? I had to quit jogging because I was getting grass burns on my foreskin...
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    Postby American Oyaji » Thu Oct 21, 2010 11:52 am

    Cyka UchuuJin wrote:You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Screwed Up Eyes again.


    Same boat here Cykachka.

    That was fucking brilliant!!
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