Sexual culture is changing....

[hanasims]

A friend of mine was in Japan for about 2 years teaching English. When he returned to America he told me stories of his trip. One story he told me was about a private English teaching gig with a husband and wife. After teaching them on a couple of occasions, he was asked if he wanted to have sex with the wife. I was like "what?". The husband wanted to watch him have sex with his wife. Has anyone else had any experiences like this?
From my observations America is changing. Sex is being promoted relentlessly on TV, in movies, music, everywhere. Is Japan experiencing the same? There is one thing I can tell you; lesbian sex is being promoted to young girls. The MTV music awards and the pregame show for football thursday night are proof. While this may not be a bad thing, it is a thing. How about in Japan? Is lesbian sex becoming more accepted or even promoted?

[Gaisaradatsuraku!]

[quote="hanasims"]A friend of mine was in Japan for about 2 years teaching English. When he returned to America he told me stories of his trip. One story he told me was about a private English teaching gig with a husband and wife. After teaching them on a couple of occasions, he was asked if he wanted to have sex with the wife. I was like "what?". The husband wanted to watch him have sex with his wife. Has anyone else had any experiences like this?
From my observations America is changing. Sex is being promoted relentlessly on TV, in movies, music, everywhere. Is Japan experiencing the same? There is one thing I can tell you]

Look, if I had 10 yen for every crackpot with a story like this I would be a kazillionaire. Look around, there are perverts in every country and city on the planet. Japan is not an exception. Even if the story is true, which by the way, it may be an exaggeration, it only is a story of one perverted couple. Don't generalize this, like so many do, and view Japan as a colony of copulating nymphos.

That being said, it is probably true that foreigners (because they are bizarre to the Japanese) may have more than their fair share of such encounters. However, this is basically happening because they represent something of an exotica. Don't ask me why but this is true. Personally, I find nothing about the typical yellow toothed, back packing, butter smelling underemployed gajin exotic in the least.

But, das juz me.

[hanasims]

I assume you are Japanese, or non-white?

[Gaisaradatsuraku!]

I assume you are Japanese, or non-white?

If you saw me you would think I am a caucy. However, 1/4 Asiatic.

[Andocrates]

[Gaisaradatsuraku!]

[Andocrates]

Gaisaradatsuraku!

your name is definitely cooler then mine.

[Alcazar]

hanasims is right, sex is becoming more pervasive in Western culture. The feminist gains of the past have evaporated with women's flesh constantly on show on TV, walking down the street, on music videos and of course the internet.

Whether this is good or not from a women's point of view is debatable, but for guys it is generally thought of as being a positive. Weird, considering that in spite of the few 'slutted up', very visible women on show in the West, the average Western woman is in some ways becoming less attractive relative to the Western woman of the past, eg weight wise. The Western women who can attain that contemporary sexy look can be very powerful!

[kotatsuneko]

perhaps the level of sex / mild nudity or more on tv, specially doramas etc is an effort by the govt thru the media to get people to have more kids?

seems koizumi is targetting freeters like moi recently too.. damn¬! still if they want ppl to have kids, some more tax relief/benefits would be nice...

poking around sleazy ads at times, offers of that kind of liasion seem rather common here, tho how many are genuine id hate to guess ^^

[Big Booger]

hanasims is right, sex is becoming more pervasive in Western culture. The feminist gains of the past have evaporated with women's flesh constantly on show on TV, walking down the street, on music videos and of course the internet.

Whether this is good or not from a women's point of view is debatable, but for guys it is generally thought of as being a positive. Weird, considering that in spite of the few 'slutted up', very visible women on show in the West, the average Western woman is in some ways becoming less attractive relative to the Western woman of the past, eg weight wise. The Western women who can attain that contemporary sexy look can be very powerful!

As I have stated here, the bag of bones look is no longer hip. Many American men want a woman with some ass jiggle, big floppy hoots, and thick thighs.. Those damn runway models are disgusting..

Thick is in, thin is out. Gotta have some gravy with the mashed potatoes. If she doesn't wiggle when she walks, she's dieting.

[contrarymary]

I do think that there is a great deal of truth in fact that the Japanese have quite a reputation for kinkiness - not only in the West (as promoted by "Blimey, the Japanese are so bizarre!" shows like "Tarrant on TV" in the UK), but also among other Asians. I used to have a South Korean flatmate who I was shocked to learn was still a virgin at the ripe old age of 25, and that she needed to stay "intact" as it were, until marriage, or else face huge moral opprobrium and ostracisation etc. etc.

So I don't think its just a stereotype, the Japanese are definitely more sexually "liberated", if you like, than other Asian countries and perhaps more than many Western ones. Whether that is a good thing or just another example of "mass Japanese neurosis" is another.

One very famous urban myth that I'm sure most on this site have come across it the vending machine which sells used school-girl knickers. Have tried for ages to find one of these things, but with no luck. One of my male friends in London wants a pair - I'm half tempted to send him some skid-marked bloomers with saggy elastic jobbies of mine, but I don't think his heart could take it.

As for lesbian sex, I don't know whether its being promoted in Japan. That depends, however, on what you mean by "lesbian" I suppose. Women together is probably one of the most common hetero male fantasies - so the recent promotion of "lipstick lesbians" in the west is probably nothing more than a continuation of this, I reckon. If you are talking about the sort of cliched 200lb, dugaree wearing, man-bashing, skinhead dykes, there isn't really a tradition of that in Japan. I don't know if there is a proper lesbian "scene" in Japan (but then I'm just a boring common-garden variety heterosexual, so I wouldn't know, would I?)

There is however, an "international dyke community of Japan" - which I saw advertised in Being A Broad, (and I'm half tempted to contact them in the hopes of making more female chums in Japan)

The email for them is: loseidman@hotmail.com

[Taro Toporific]

One very famous urban myth that I'm sure most on this site have come across it the vending machine which sells used school-girl knickers. Have tried for ages to find one of these things, but with no luck. One of my male friends in London wants a pair - I'm half tempted to send him some skid-marked bloomers with saggy elastic jobbies of mine, but I don't think his heart could take it.

Cue Mission Impossible theme)

Good morning, Ms contrarymary Phelps... Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to seek out the dangerous Japanese Urban Legend... the USED PANTY VENDING MACHINE.

Many claim it does not exist. Other claim it's a racist Urban Myth. No body has a real picture or location for it. Your mission is to find out the rest-of-the-story.

In the google folder at your right ...

-----------------folder----------------------
Used panty machine contents.
http://dmw.avpnation.com/panty.htm
http://www.angelfire.com/gundam/deadboy/panty.html

GMAN: Oden in a Can
... That's my 2 cents. War sucks too. The panty machine does exist, as it's been profiled
on several foreign news programs. ... urban legend? or men's dream hanbaiki? ...
http://www.greggman.com/edit/editheadlines/2003-03-20.htm


Belly Button Window Weekly PhotoJournal - Japan: June 26, 2000
... boxes. Yes, I looked for the panty machine, but could only find clean,
not dirty panties ready for my yen. Oh, and yen did I need! ...
http://www.wayan.net/journal/china/jun_26.htm


The St Cat's Exchange - Part I
... In the dorms at St Angela's. Did they have a panty machine?". St Cat's: Outside
the Main Entrance. ... Home sweet home. Panty machine's just inside the door. ...
http://www.thevalkyrie.com/ladybumps/ stories/stcats/catsex1.htm


Why I like the Japanese: Pepsi, Panties and Porn
From: ericdknapp home

People wonder why I am fascinated with the Japanese. Well, to be truthful it's mostly because of the sake and...

http://www.ericdknapp.com/homeblog/archives/000069.html


Justin Hall on panty and kiddy porn

http://www.links.net/daze/03/07/04/yours_is_yonechan.html


-----------------end folder-------------


So to recap, your mission is to infiltrate the enemy organization who has hidden all the Panty Venting Machines, frame the kingpin, blow up the munitions dump, seduce the seductress, and ensure freedom in the Western Hemisphere --- all while maintaining your anonymity.
If any of your force be killed or captured, the secretary will disavow any knowledge of your actions...this message will self destruct in 5 seconds... Good Luck, mary.

(As the tape self-destructs to jazzy music.)

"Used panty machine contents."
Pictures are here
http://dmw.avpnation.com/panty.htm
http://www.angelfire.com/gundam/deadboy/panty.html

ENJOY?

[contrarymary]

What about the lezzies though?

[kotatsuneko]

edit.

dont know anything about the lesbian scene here , apart from the ususal mainichi stories ^^

[Gaisaradatsuraku!]

hanasims is right, sex is becoming more pervasive in Western culture. The feminist gains of the past have evaporated with women's flesh constantly on show on TV, walking down the street, on music videos and of course the internet.

Whether this is good or not from a women's point of view is debatable, but for guys it is generally thought of as being a positive. Weird, considering that in spite of the few 'slutted up', very visible women on show in the West, the average Western woman is in some ways becoming less attractive relative to the Western woman of the past, eg weight wise. The Western women who can attain that contemporary sexy look can be very powerful!

As I have stated here, the bag of bones look is no longer hip. Many American men want a woman with some ass jiggle, big floppy hoots, and thick thighs.. Those damn runway models are disgusting..

Thick is in, thin is out. Gotta have some gravy with the mashed potatoes. If she doesn't wiggle when she walks, she's dieting.

I think you are easily led. This type of thinking shows the power of Hollywood. They have the world thinking that JLo and Ben Afleck are an attractive couple. The fact is that they are both revolting examples of the human animal. They have poor shapes, unattractive faces and do not look the slightest bit intelligent. The fat is good point of view is a travesty. I swear to God people would copulate with animals if they said it was a good thing to do on Hollywood2Night. Lord have mercy.

[contrarymary]

Yes, but wot about lezzies though?

[Taro Toporific]

[Jack]

A guy in Canada once asked me to bang his young wife for him and since she was gorgeous, I made an exception and did her even though she is non-Asian. This sort of thing can happen anywhere.

Many years ago I also had heard of sex stories pertaining to Japanese girls and when I embarked on my long sexual journey, and I had my fair share of Japanese girls, I could never get two friends together or any other weird sexual experience. Many girls were willing to have sex with me, but that's just it. Nothing weird like a threesome. So I think many of the stories one hears is either one-off unusual stuff or plain untrue.

[American Oyaji]

Actually, its not that hard. But they don't want it to be with someone they know.

[GomiGirl]

So I think many of the stories one hears is either one-off unusual stuff or plain untrue.

So you admit that your stories are untrue???

You just contradicted yourself Jack!!

[Taro Toporific]

The semi-mythical vending machine underpants found during a Tokyo Game Show "sidequest" ...

TGS Sidequest: Capsule Toy Mysteries
gameinformer.com / September 20, 2014
... in Japan, where many vending machines dispense unknown goods (though many are related to gaming). We took a break from covering the Tokyo Game Show to check out some of these unique treasures... though we definitely weren't delighted with all of our purchases.
Getting capsule toys is basically like using a gumball machine: You plunk in some money (usually the equivalent of a few dollars), and the machines spit out a random plastic bubble that contains your prize...Here are the results...
Undies
This just seemed too ridiculous to be true. It wasn't. You can get vending machine underpants in Tokyo...

undies1 (1).jpg

undies2.jpg

More...

[Papa-Lazarou]

I had a rich Japanese guy ask me to bang his 45 year old wife, as he was too busy sleeping with his "student" girls to bother doing it himself.

I did, and she was very nice. They both thanked me like i had helped them move a heavy wardrobe up a flight of stairs.

[wagyl]

I had a rich Japanese guy ask me to bang his 45 year old wife, as he was too busy sleeping with his "student" girls to bother doing it himself.

I did, and she was very nice. They both thanked me like i had helped them move a heavy wardrobe up a flight of stairs.

Did you tell Dave that she was your wife now?

[Buraku]

Actually, Japan has changed a lot; The 2020s are not the 1990s.

https://noahpinion.substack.com/p/actua ... nged-a-lot

Gerontocracy

Reading the widely discussed farewell essay by the BBC’s outgoing Tokyo correspondent, Rupert Wingfield-Hayes, I felt a deep sense of frustration. The veteran journalist summed up his impression of Japan — where he has lived and worked since 2012 — as one of stagnation and stasis, declaring that “after a decade here I have got used to the way Japan is and come to accept the fact that it is not about to change.”

And yet as someone who has lived in Japan, and who has gone back there for about a month out of every year since 2011, and who has written fairly extensively about the country’s economy, I can tell you that it absolutely has changed, in important and highly visible ways.

But before I go through Wingfield-Hayes’ article and explain all the things I think it gets wrong, I should say that although I’ve never met him, he seems like a good guy who honestly wants to see Japan do better than it’s doing. And some of the criticisms he makes are both accurate and very important.

For example, I think he’s absolutely right to identify gerontocracy as Japan’s fundamental problem. Wingfield-Hayes points to political gerontocracy — elderly voters maintaining the power of an elderly, ossified political class — but I think an equally or even more important problem is corporate gerontocracy. The near-universal practice of seniority-based promotion, combined with low startup rates and population aging, has led to an ossified class of corporate executives and managers who would rather preside comfortably over declining little empires than embrace new technologies and business models and take new risks. That in turn has caused Japanese companies to fall behind foreign rivals as they miss technological revolution after revolution — microprocessors, smartphones, semiconductor foundries, battery-powered cars, etc.

Wingfield-Hayes is also right to decry the low-productivity menial jobs that Japan has in abundance. Hiring 6 people to do the job of 2 is sadly common in Japan, and it’s a big reason why Japanese people earn such low and stagnant wages. The heart of the problem is the lack of new high-growth companies, which is due to deficiencies in R&D, lack of late-stage startup funding, and (especially) Japanese companies’ failure to tap export markets in lieu of their shrinking home market.

So Wingfield-Hayes is right to see Japan as a country that used to embrace the future and no longer does, and he’s right to point the finger at gerontocracy as the key problem. But his broader characterization of Japan as a stagnant, static society is very much off the mark. And I worry that this kind of article leads Western readers to think about Japan in terms of the cliches of the 1980s and 1990s — the postwar manufacturing successes, the bubble economy, the lost decade, etc., all of which Wingfield-Hayes repeatedly mentions. Those events were certainly important, but they don’t really define modern Japan or the challenges it faces in the 2020s.

Anyway, now let’s talk about some of the big recent changes in Japan that I think Wingfield-Hayes failed to appreciate.
Japan builds and builds and builds

The BBC correspondent’s most baffling argument is — if I read him right — that the built environment of Japanese cities has stagnated. This would be very strange indeed for a country that famously tears down its buildings after 30 years. Every time I go to Japan, I’m stunned at how many new buildings there are.

Japan Gov't to open women's support office for abuse, poverty sufferers

https://mainichi.jp/english/articles/20 ... na/048000c

JR East says employee repeatedly sexually harassed visually impaired female passenger
https://www.japantimes.co.jp/news/2023/ ... arassment/
A male employee of East Japan Railway (JR East) repeatedly made comments deemed to be of a sexually harassing nature to a visually impaired female passenger

[Coligny]

She was blind, not deaf, he should have been more careful…