Married in Texas and Concerned

[Samurai_Jerk]

Also... man up a bit...

Physician, heal thyself

[wuchan]

@Tex,

you know, you do live in Texas. Go to a pay phone and invite him over for a few beers then as soon as he steps on your lawn shoot him for trespassing.

[Coligny]

Also... man up a bit...

Physician, heal thyself

bu... bu... but...

If I change, you won't love mee anymoar...

[texasthrowaway]

Fuck this motherfucker. He's in his late 30's married to a Japanese wife in her mid 30's who is fucking living with him here in the states. I truly want to fuck him over some how. Lots of things are running through my mind. All of them will hurt my wife at her job, but I'm not sure isn't already hurt her career b/c she rebuffed him....please PM me if you want to help or translate some messages for me. I believe my wife, to some degree about what happened, but I'm kind of a trust but verify kind of guy..

Thanks

[Coligny]

I really don't think you should deal with this f00ker in any kinf of way...

Why not focusing on getting back the attenshiun of your wife instead ?

[Yokohammer]

I really don't think you should deal with this f00ker in any kinf of way...

Why not focusing on getting back the attenshiun of your wife instead ?

Beating the shit out of the guy would be quite an attention-grabber.

Two birds with one stone!

Disclaimer: this post is not intended to condone violence in any way ... sometimes it's just fun to think about it ...

[texasthrowaway]

I want to shake his hand and ask him if he reads his wife's diary because I read mine and than not let go of his hand and just smile. That's the least violent thing I want to do.

[Samurai_Jerk]

You guys are going to feel really bad when this peckerwood actually shoots the guy.

[Russell]

Fuck this motherfucker. He's in his late 30's married to a Japanese wife in her mid 30's who is fucking living with him here in the states. I truly want to fuck him over some how. Lots of things are running through my mind. All of them will hurt my wife at her job, but I'm not sure isn't already hurt her career b/c she rebuffed him....please PM me if you want to help or translate some messages for me. I believe my wife, to some degree about what happened, but I'm kind of a trust but verify kind of guy..

Thanks

At this point you had better follow Coligny's advice and focus your (positive) attention on your wife.

Whatever you do, just make sure you stay within the law, otherwise you will only victimize yourself.

[Coligny]

Focus on what you can build instead of what you want to destroy.

Make what you can offer better than what there is.

Killing everyone even remotely involved in the problem never work in the long term. If you only have short term fix you can never move on and become a slave of the circumstances.

It's like plumbing... Mostly...

Now it obviously don't always work (looking at you, the one who shall not be named)... But trying your best and failing is much better than trying your worse and succeeding.

[Russell]

What happened Coligny?

You suddenly started to make sense.

Tex: Yep, forward is the way to go. It looks like your wife made up her mind in favor of you, so it is best to reinforce it with positive experiences. If the guy continues to bother her, that's a different matter, but still it is best to keep your head cool.

[matsuki]

What happened Coligny?

You suddenly started to make sense.

Tex: Yep, forward is the way to go. It looks like your wife made up her mind in favor of you, so it is best to reinforce it with positive experiences. If the guy continues to bother her, that's a different matter, but still it is best to keep your head cool.

I think he switched cat foods

...but yeah, if the boss dude made advances and your wife actually told him to knock it off, you should be praising her for that shit and have her hit up the HR department, if only to get his advances documented.

[texasthrowaway]

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[IparryU]

fuck it

Can anyone translate this shit for me? BJ's is a restaurant. No need to make jokes...

part 1
http://i.imgur.com/xT27IMx.jpg

part2
http://i.imgur.com/r5CWJL7.jpg

I want to know where and if he professes his love attraction whatever. If he promises her anything etc... Also what is her response?

Thanks

cant translate it all the way be he is getting more attention than you.... any takers on translating this?

[matsuki]

fuck it

Can anyone translate this shit for me? BJ's is a restaurant. No need to make jokes...

part 1
http://i.imgur.com/xT27IMx.jpg

part2
http://i.imgur.com/r5CWJL7.jpg

I want to know where and if he professes his love attraction whatever. If he promises her anything etc... Also what is her response?

Thanks

Damn that is a boring conversation The "pity me" method doesn't exactly get the lemurs in the mood. The guy has no game and your wife isn't too interested.

[Russell]

Damn that is a boring conversation The "pity me" method doesn't exactly get the lemurs in the mood. The guy has no game and your wife isn't too interested.

Hmm, I had a similar impression.

It's not exactly a steamy relationship.

[texasthrowaway]

what exactly does it say?

[yanpa]

I don't have the time or inclination to translate it, but skimming through earlier I did get the impression the "me" in the conversation wasn't exactly flirting, which pretty much matches what Russel and choko say.

[Iraira]

Maybe it's my monitor, but the damn jpg was way small and I've got wicked bad astigmatism...but glancing over the first one...I really don't get a feeling one way or another about anything. You seriously need to talk and talk and talk (although J-chicks, when they make up their mind about the relationship being in the toilet, talking to them is like talking to someone who gobbled a few hundred hits of LSD), or plant some biker crank on her, get her arrested, and maybe they'll just deport her. The second one...I ain't straining my eyes without cash being furikomi'd.

[texasthrowaway]

The "me" is my wife. She told me she rebuffed him. I believe her. I trust her, I don't trust him. (yeah yeah I know about the whole reading private texts thing) What I want to know is what he said.

[Coligny]

The "me" is my wife. She told me she rebuffed him. I believe her. I trust her, I don't trust him. (yeah yeah I know about the whole reading private texts thing) What I want to know is what he said.

Intel gathering... That one part while you need to be discreet... (Like not posting in a public forum ffs) is in no way to be ashamed of...

If you need drones we can give you some headsup...

[texasthrowaway]

I asked if anyone would help to PM me. No brave souls did. I'll take it down now.

[Samurai_Jerk]

I asked if anyone would help to PM me. No brave souls did. I'll take it down now.

I glanced through it earlier and it's pretty much what others are saying. He was tying to get her to go out with him and saying he knows it's inappropriate and she told him it ain't happening but in a friendly way.

[Coligny]

Which is the best way to defuse a situation.

Even if "No, you cock sucking limp dicked dooshbag" have a nicer ring to it...

[matsuki]

In short, dude is apologizing for something that happened with Hashiguchi? san with and basically asking her to go to BJ's to apologize and explain (really weird way to try to make a move?) and the wife is like ehhhh it's no big deal, no need to do anything, just forget about it. He's persistent and it seems like she's politely blowing him off. Guy seems like typical Japanese adult, emotionally stuck in highschool. Wife isn't interested, no big deal. Like others said, I'd put your nervous energy into making your relationship with your wife better rather than making an issue of this. (though to be honest, what you describe sounds like sooo many lemurs here I know who spend more time bitching about their lives with other lemurs than doing something about what bothers them.) Take her on a cruise or some place like vegas or Hawaii. Put some effort into it to have fun and remind her why you two are together.

[IparryU]

In short, dude is apologizing for something that happened with Hashiguchi? san with and basically asking her to go to BJ's to apologize and explain (really weird way to try to make a move?) and the wife is like ehhhh it's no big deal, no need to do anything, just forget about it. He's persistent and it seems like she's politely blowing him off. Guy seems like typical Japanese adult, emotionally stuck in highschool. Wife isn't interested, no big deal. Like others said, I'd put your nervous energy into making your relationship with your wife better rather than making an issue of this. (though to be honest, what you describe sounds like sooo many lemurs here I know who spend more time bitching about their lives with other lemurs than doing something about what bothers them.) Take her on a cruise or some place like vegas or Hawaii. Put some effort into it to have fun and remind her why you two are together.

second this.

i would guess that you dont giver 'er enough attention. if you aren't going to make an effort to somehow create a spark in the relationship... then expect more of this shit.

rather than focusing on the translation, focus on getting her wet again. as in, do something that she will love you again... and the doors to the old play ground will open

[Coligny]

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rather than focusing on the translation, focus on getting her wet again. as in, do something that she will love you again... and the doors to the old play ground will open

Hint: whatever you do, it should not involve anything looking even remotely like this

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[Russell]

In short, dude is apologizing for something that happened with Hashiguchi? san with and basically asking her to go to BJ's to apologize and explain (really weird way to try to make a move?) and the wife is like ehhhh it's no big deal, no need to do anything, just forget about it. He's persistent and it seems like she's politely blowing him off. Guy seems like typical Japanese adult, emotionally stuck in highschool. Wife isn't interested, no big deal. Like others said, I'd put your nervous energy into making your relationship with your wife better rather than making an issue of this. (though to be honest, what you describe sounds like sooo many lemurs here I know who spend more time bitching about their lives with other lemurs than doing something about what bothers them.) Take her on a cruise or some place like vegas or Hawaii. Put some effort into it to have fun and remind her why you two are together.

I came to the same conclusion, but I was wondering whether "Hashiguchi" was referring to the wife, since Japanese tend to use the family name to address each other rather than "anata".

Anyway, whatever, but I advise Tex to take Choko's advice seriously.

[J.A.F.O]

Wow, I go a way for a couple days and the whole situation is defused. I was just getting out the popcorn and settling in for the next installment of day of Texan lives.

Oh well back to loony toons

[gaijinpunch]

Yeah, indeed. As the local Texan, I should have been telepathically notified of this thread! Anyway, I hope everything works out. The only thing I would watch out in is the whole snooping in the email. I don't know if it's a divorcible offense, but I think it would set back any relationship a LOT IMHO. I had a friend that allegedly put a key stroke recorder on his GF's computer and went into here email. I was actually a little sick at my stomach (I was glad to see). My moral compass isn't the best, but it works for a handful of things... trust/mistrust is one.