I know my ego is big enough to be pretty pissed off that my wife would have someone elses child because she took a brief fancy to him....or that she gave me aids, herpies or whatever else.maraboutslim wrote:I mean, humans are not designed to be monogomous. So where does that insistance on exclusivity get you? It gets people divorced and their kids suffer all because they can't deal with the idea that their spouse played with someone else. You can't "trust them" anymore. Is your ego that big that you don't want anything to do with the woman/man you love simply because they found someone else they took a brief fancy too? What the hell is that all about?
Use a condom? Oh, what happened if she got herpies? You can get that even with a condom. There are plenty of things you can catch....which is fine if you are one person, but when you are married you are a collective whole. I dont think its fair to give a desease to your uknown partner...do you?
Anyway just because maybe you swing doesnt mean its for all. If that works for you, thats great...more power to you. I dont think this guy that made the thread was talking about swinging though.
yep you are right.maraboutslim wrote:Hey, if that's the game you really want to play, and your spouse agrees, then fine, stick to it. But it's not the only way you can do things and I suspect not the way that leads to the happiest marriage and happiest life.
-Slim
yeah he could!!! However he is over ratedAssKissinger wrote:Geez, sex with J-girls is over-rated to begin with.
Yeah, and Jimi Hendrix couldn't play the guitar.

Why thank you folks!!!Taro Toporific wrote:Caustic Saint wrote:... recent (and welcome) influx of new posters has brought it (and a couple other topics) back to life...
Yes, welcome to the Monkey House folks.
Anyone live in the Nagoya area by the way?