Do Japanese girls shower with fathers until age 16?

[torasan]

An American man married to a Japanes woman, both in their 40s now, he says online at another forum that his Japanese wife told him that she regulary took showers with her mother AND her father together until she was 16 year old? Is this common in Japan? Any clarification on this?

[Taro Toporific]

An American man married to a Japanese woman, both in their 40s now, he says online at another forum that his Japanese wife told him that she regulary took showers with her mother AND her father together until she was 16 year old? Is this common in Japan? Any clarification on this?

Yep, they bathe together until the girls grow tits. Sometimes this is a strategy for older teens and college coeds to get more shopping money out their parents. It isn't as incestuous as it sounds, is not a big deal, and varies widely among Japanese families.

Source: Mrs. Taro and gossiping obaasan at work.

[Coligny]

An American man married to a Japanese woman, both in their 40s now, he says online at another forum that his Japanese wife told him that she regulary took showers with her mother AND her father together until she was 16 year old? Is this common in Japan? Any clarification on this?

Yep, they bathe together until the girls grow tits. Sometimes this is a strategy for older teens and college coeds to get more shopping money out their parents. It isn't as incestuous as it sounds, is not a big deal, and varies widely among Japanese families.

Source: Mrs. Taro and gossiping obaasan at work.

Can I have my DVD back nao ?

[Taro Toporific]

It isn't as incestuous as it sounds, is not a big deal, and varies widely among Japanese families.

Source: Mrs. Taro and gossiping obaasan at work.

Can I have my DVD back nao ?

No DVD, but getting in a hotub naked with your family is not unheard of in Colorado. My professors would invite me over occasionally to hot tub---One pervy prof made it a point that I should, "Check out my cheerleader daughter."

[chibaka]

Yep, they bathe together until the girls grow tits.

This can be a very long time in Japan.....

[kurogane]

ba dum bum

tee hee. Health chuckles.

[matsuki]

I don't usually ask but one lemur I dated made it a point to say she walked around the house naked after a shower. (she was 23) Her parents weren't exactly encouraging it but the whole shower/bathe together thing seems to have made her of the mindset, naked in front of family is ok.

[dimwit]

Yep, they bathe together until the girls grow tits. Sometimes this is a strategy for older teens and college coeds to get more shopping money out their parents. It isn't as incestuous as it sounds, is not a big deal, and varies widely among Japanese families.

Yes, I've known of at least one neighbor who bathed with his daughter into junior high school and attitudes towards it do vary greatly. My wife thinks it's weird, but other people tell me it is just traditional practice. I suspect in 10 years time, innocent or not, it will be considered universally creepy.

[torasan]

Thanks for all these comments. In my five years in Japan, I had never heard of that. But it does seem to be somewhat traditional and accepted among Japanese families. We shall see what the future holds. Thanks again for good comments and replies.

[Samurai_Jerk]

I remember having a conversation about this with a Japanese friend a few years back. He said he was starting to get uncomfortable with the family baths because his daughter had turned 13 and now had breasts and pubic hair. He said he didn't know what to do. I thought it was pretty obvious he should stop but I could see how that might be an uncomfortable conversation to have with the family (or with the wife since the best way to handle it would be through her).

[matsuki]

I remember having a conversation about this with a Japanese friend a few years back. He said he was starting to get uncomfortable with the family baths because his daughter had turned 13 and now had breasts and pubic hair. He said he didn't know what to do. I thought it was pretty obvious he should stop but I could see how that might be an uncomfortable conversation to have with the family (or with the wife since the best way to handle it would be through her).

How about just not get in with the mom and daughter?

[kurogane]

Probably because mom and/or daughter invite him when it's bath time and his even broaching the subject would suddenly sexualise what has probably not been thought of as so by them. And then he looks like a perv.

BTW, I highly doubt it will ever be thought of as universally creepy. Most Jpn GFs that want to bathe together get really hinky if I sexualise it. It's just a bath. They like baths. Actually, they like baths and hot water so much THAT'S creepy.

So, is anybody gonna take one for the team and ask the pertinent question?

[matsuki]

Probably because mom and/or daughter invite him when it's bath time and his even broaching the subject would suddenly sexualise what has probably not been thought of as so by them. And then he looks like a perv.

BTW, I highly doubt it will ever be thought of as universally creepy. Most Jpn GFs that want to bathe together get really hinky if I sexualise it. It's just a bath. They like baths. Actually, they like baths and hot water so much THAT'S creepy.

He could just say "you're too old for me to be in there with you." Jumping in there is what makes him look like a perv, even if he's not. The number of Father-daughter themed JAV is enough to make it creepy...

So, is anybody gonna take one for the team and ask the pertinent question?

How can I shower with the daughter?

[Samurai_Jerk]

The number of Father-daughter themed JAV is enough to make it creepy...

Incest-themed porn is very common in the US too.

[kurogane]

He could just say "you're too old for me to be in there with you.

Right, but that is the trigger I am talking about that might flick the switch in mom and daughter's thinking. It has always astounded me how innocently they find and portray something we find so massively creepy. Most of my GFs thought it disgusting that I would even think of the bath as a venue for anything more than washing, even at love hotels.

So, is anybody gonna take one for the team and ask the pertinent question?

How can I shower with the daughter?

Bravo. I meant:

Is she hot?

[Samurai_Jerk]

Right, but that is the trigger I am talking about that might flick the switch in mom and daughter's thinking. It has always astounded me how innocently they find and portray something we find so massively creepy. Most of my GFs thought it disgusting that I would even think of the bath as a venue for anything more than washing, even at love hotels.

Is that innocence or does it make them feel like a whore at one of dad's favorite soaplands?

[Coligny]

Ok, but,just in theorical case, is it still ok to pee in the shower if you bath with the family ? And fart in the tub ?

[Coligny]

It isn't as incestuous as it sounds, is not a big deal, and varies widely among Japanese families.

Source: Mrs. Taro and gossiping obaasan at work.

Can I have my DVD back nao ?

No DVD, but getting in a hotub naked with your family is not unheard of in Colorado. My professors would invite me over occasionally to hot tub---One pervy prof made it a point that I should, "Check out my cheerleader daughter."

BANJOS !!!! Gun the throttle, we have to bug out of here....

[Taro Toporific]

... I suspect in 10 years time, innocent or not, it will be considered universally creepy.

"Creepy"?

hinky.gif

[kurogane]

Right, but that is the trigger I am talking about that might flick the switch in mom and daughter's thinking. It has always astounded me how innocently they find and portray something we find so massively creepy. Most of my GFs thought it disgusting that I would even think of the bath as a venue for anything more than washing, even at love hotels.

Is that innocence or does it make them feel like a whore at one of dad's favorite soaplands?

Booya.

Wasn't there a story in China where a Dad met a woman online and it turned out she was his DinLaw and they did it anyways?

[Samurai_Jerk]

Right, but that is the trigger I am talking about that might flick the switch in mom and daughter's thinking. It has always astounded me how innocently they find and portray something we find so massively creepy. Most of my GFs thought it disgusting that I would even think of the bath as a venue for anything more than washing, even at love hotels.

Is that innocence or does it make them feel like a whore at one of dad's favorite soaplands?

Booya.

Wasn't there a story in China where a Dad met a woman online and it turned out she was his DinLaw and they did it anyways?

Haven't heard that one but there is this one.

It's been established that reuniting with long-lost relatives can and does result in "Genetic Sexual Attraction," a term coined in the 1980s.

In fact, some have estimated that elements of sexual attraction occur in as many as half the cases of estranged loved ones who meet as adults.

Still, it's widely considered taboo, and even more so when the attraction is between a father and daughter, reports New York magazine.

As the woman who coined the phrase GSA told the Guardian in 2003, "That group tends to stay very silent. It's still regarded as dangerously close to abuse, even though it is no different from other forms of GSA."

But one such unnamed couple living in the Great Lakes region is now making news after the teen daughter talked at length with the magazine about reuniting with her father — whom she hadn't seen since she was about 5 — 12 years later and finding herself instantly attracted to him.

The daughter says they have been dating for nearly two years — since she lost her virginity to her father just days after reuniting with him — and that they plan to marry, if unofficially, and move to New Jersey, where she says adult incest is legal.

She says that she and her father, who conceived her on prom night when he was 18, plan to have a large family and that she's not worried about their kids having genetic problems because "that happens when there's years of inbreeding, like with the royal family."

[kurogane]

Meanwhile, Back In Amereeka....................

Yuck

[matsuki]

Right, but that is the trigger I am talking about that might flick the switch in mom and daughter's thinking. It has always astounded me how innocently they find and portray something we find so massively creepy. Most of my GFs thought it disgusting that I would even think of the bath as a venue for anything more than washing, even at love hotels.

Is that innocence or does it make them feel like a whore at one of dad's favorite soaplands?

I think SJ hit it...though I've banged plenty of them in showers and more than a few have been the instigator when it comes to bathtub blowjobs. (though to be honest, the heat in those steamy rooms ruins the fun for me)

[kurogane]

Allowing that it sounds like I tend to date women of a better ilk, you might be right, but just to control my gag reflex I am going with the older fashioned middle class ethos: it's bath naked not bed naked. It's all about Kejime, baby. Kejime.

[matsuki]

Who's talking about dating? I was just there for the bangin'

[Cyka UchuuJin]

This might be the creepiest thread ever...

[kurogane]

If it's any consolation Cyka the fair minded amongst us just turned the table and imagined bathing with our own Mom.

So, yeah, back to what you just said..................................

[Cyka UchuuJin]

Right, but that is the trigger I am talking about that might flick the switch in mom and daughter's thinking. It has always astounded me how innocently they find and portray something we find so massively creepy. Most of my GFs thought it disgusting that I would even think of the bath as a venue for anything more than washing, even at love hotels.

Is that innocence or does it make them feel like a whore at one of dad's favorite soaplands?

I think SJ hit it...though I've banged plenty of them in showers and more than a few have been the instigator when it comes to bathtub blowjobs. (though to be honest, the heat in those steamy rooms ruins the fun for me)

I'm all for a bit of soapy fun, but if a guy asks me to call them daddy while doing it? I am SO outta there.



still creepiest thread ever...

[Samurai_Jerk]

Right, but that is the trigger I am talking about that might flick the switch in mom and daughter's thinking. It has always astounded me how innocently they find and portray something we find so massively creepy. Most of my GFs thought it disgusting that I would even think of the bath as a venue for anything more than washing, even at love hotels.

Is that innocence or does it make them feel like a whore at one of dad's favorite soaplands?

I think SJ hit it...though I've banged plenty of them in showers and more than a few have been the instigator when it comes to bathtub blowjobs. (though to be honest, the heat in those steamy rooms ruins the fun for me)

I'm all for a bit of soapy fun, but if a guy asks me to call them daddy while doing it? I am SO outta there.



still creepiest thread ever...

Can I call you mommy?

[6810]

Right, but that is the trigger I am talking about that might flick the switch in mom and daughter's thinking. It has always astounded me how innocently they find and portray something we find so massively creepy. Most of my GFs thought it disgusting that I would even think of the bath as a venue for anything more than washing, even at love hotels.

Is that innocence or does it make them feel like a whore at one of dad's favorite soaplands?

I think SJ hit it...though I've banged plenty of them in showers and more than a few have been the instigator when it comes to bathtub blowjobs. (though to be honest, the heat in those steamy rooms ruins the fun for me)

I'm all for a bit of soapy fun, but if a guy asks me to call them daddy while doing it? I am SO outta there.



still creepiest thread ever...

creepiest post ever