How do I tell a fellow FG the bad news?

[japslapper]

I was up in Tokyo for a 4 week course(usually call Wakayama/UK home) - and started bi-lateral realations with a nice 32 year old lady called Yuki.
Nothing serious - just sex, minimal ties etc. .... yes I was being "careful" anyway it turns out she is a bit of a "FG-junkie". Her English is not good(we used Japanese off the futon) - but in the futon area she knew the vocab very well - more with a US slant I should say......this got me thinking After a bit of research - asking some FGs in the area as well as reading her phone (she thinks I couldnt read JP )
I found out she was ENGAGED to a fellow FG from Florida. I know who he is now - nice chap - however he must be stupid to fix with a J-bird like that!

Anway I confronted Yuki on this and she said it was true - but she would be happy to continue to meet with me even after tieing the knot! I then asked her more and she told me she loved gaijin and also before me she had been two timing her FG with a Californian and a Texan!!!!

Do I just go and tell this Florida- chap?...."sorry mate but your fiance is a slapper"??? - this guy is gonna be so fucked over......

I mean ruffling a fellow FGs rhubarb is just not right is it

Advice guys.....

Thanx
JS

[ibiza]

You should really tell the guy. Think about it, wouldn't you want to know?


I've said it before and I'll say it again, if a j-gal has a large vocabulary in bed, stay away from her. Most likely shes been with every gaijin from here to timbucktu.

[Taro Toporific]

[djgizmoe]

Do I just go and tell this Florida- chap?...."sorry mate but your fiance is a slapper"??? - this guy is gonna be so fucked over......

JS

I'd stop boinking her at the very least. Plenty more tuna in the sea...

My friend in Aichi was in a somewhat similar situation. He left his steady for a week or three. When he returned, his 'best' friend had the courtousy (?) to inform him that he had been doing his girlfriend while he was gone. He confronted his girlfriend, and she went psycho, swallowing a bottle of pills in front of him and then (de facto) forcing him to drive her to the hospital.
Tread lightly, Japslapper...

[AssKissinger]

Don't tell. He don't wanna hear it. He already knows but he doesn't want to believe he knows so why should you fuck it up?


BTW, how's the hole?

[Speed]

Don't tell.

This couple may have a... "If you do cheat, just make sure I don't ever find out" kind of understanding.

Just get out of the mix and let it be.

[Big Booger]

Keep on tagging it. If he doesn't know that she's a fucking whore, then he's a dumbass who deserves it.. He could be secretly taping you two getting it on.. just something to think about..

[sillygirl]

Woah! Get outta there man! As said above, plenty more sushi in the sea. Don't tell him, you might end up picking your teeth up with broken arms.

[japslapper]

Thanx folks

Having found the numbers (off Yuki the J-sluts' Keitai) of the Texan and Californian - and phoned them - and told them the score. One had wised up and had quit early, the other didn't twig(yup - the Texan ). We are gonna meet up and do the honourable thing - and tell him. To tell the poor guy that he has been getting sloppy seconds/thirds/fourths from 3 fellow FGs - in a nice way - and perhaps help him move out of his apartment he shares with her. Its the least we can do. .... he may not like it but he may thank us one day.

And folks I was careful - and soon as I twigged - I was off that stead! Conclusion: Inaka chicks are way better

BTW, how's the hole?

AK, thanks for the concern - yes the hole was shaved and of a fair standard - surprisingly

[kamome]

J-birds in Tokyo like Yuki are a dime a dozen. If you picked her up at a gaijin bar in Roppongi, you have to expect that she's been passed around the gaijin community and, as Taro said, there are bound to be overlaps. So no surprise there.

Is no one else shocked that japslapper actually went into this girl's phone and read its contents? You should not have invaded her privacy by opening her phone and calling some random dudes in her registry. If some random J-bird did that to me, I'd be furious.

Regardless of her infidelity to her fiance, you were just tagging that ass for fun, right? Why do you feel compelled to get any more involved in her personal life? Just get out of there and don't call her again.

[cstaylor]

That's why everyone should get one of the Fujitsu keitai phones with the fingerprint sensor... no more snooping!

[djgizmoe]

Is no one else shocked that japslapper actually went into this girl's phone and read its contents? You should not have invaded her privacy by opening her phone and calling some random dudes in her registry. If some random J-bird did that to me, I'd be furious.

Regardless of her infidelity to her fiance, you were just tagging that ass for fun, right? Why do you feel compelled to get any more involved in her personal life? Just get out of there and don't call her again.

Yeah, Japslapper don't be going through keitais like a jealous boyfriend unless you really are one.
But good luck with the 'intervention', although I suspect it will just end up pissing everyone off...

[cstaylor]

Its the least we can do. .... he may not like it but he may thank us one day.

Don't count on it. You'll always be associated with the event.

[GomiGirl]

Can we please have some more derogatory comments against this woman in this thread.. I just don't think we have called her enough names yet.



Honestly boys!!!

If you don't agree with her behaviour and the way she choses to live her life then get out of there and don't associate with her.

What would you think if the tables were turned and people were snooping through your keitai and calling up your conquests???

/high horse

[AssKissinger]

Fair enough Gomi.

japslapper, did you hit her backdoor yet? Cause after that you're her 'daddy'. Even if she marries another guy when you see her and ask her, 'Who's your daddy?' She'll have to say, 'japslapper's my daddy'.

[kamome]

japslapper, did you hit her backdoor yet? Cause after that you're her 'daddy'. Even if she marries another guy when you see her and ask her, 'Who's your daddy?' She'll have to say, 'japslapper's my daddy'.

AK, are you a backdoor kind a' guy? I tend not to venture into those nether regions.

[Big Booger]

Can we please have some more derogatory comments against this woman in this thread.. I just don't think we have called her enough names yet.



Honestly boys!!!

If you don't agree with her behaviour and the way she choses to live her life then get out of there and don't associate with her.

What would you think if the tables were turned and people were snooping through your keitai and calling up your conquests???

/high horse

She is a whore though:

whore n.

1. A prostitute.
2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.

I'm referring to the use of the second definition.

I'm mean, an apple is an apple and an orange is an orange. She's a whore.. I'd say the same about a man, except I'd call him a male whore or a stud muffin... they both mean practically the same thing.

[mercutio]

After a bit of research - asking some FGs in the area as well as reading her phone (she thinks I couldnt read JP )
I found out she was ENGAGED to a fellow FG from Florida. I know who he is now - nice chap - however he must be stupid to fix with a J-bird like that!

So heres a question for you... Which is worse? that she violated your trust by havnig sex with someone else or that you violated her trust by reading through her phone?

Id say you're about even... You both got laid and had your fun... Leave it at that. Beyond that its none of *your* business.

[cstaylor]

Id say you're about even... You both got laid and had your fun... Leave it at that. Beyond that its none of *your* business.

I agree with Mercutio.

[nullpointer]

Id say you're about even... You both got laid and had your fun... Leave it at that. Beyond that its none of *your* business.

I agree with Mercutio.

Me too. Does he speak from experience?

[oyajikun]

If he dosn't know what she's up to, he's bound to find out eventually. I wouldn't be the one to break it to him though.

[sillygirl]

Fair enough Gomi.

japslapper, did you hit her backdoor yet? Cause after that you're her 'daddy'. Even if she marries another guy when you see her and ask her, 'Who's your daddy?' She'll have to say, 'japslapper's my daddy'.

LMAO!!!!!!!!!

STOP IT! Just spat nihon shu all over my keyboard!!!!

[Big Booger]

I think too many people mind their own business to protect themselves. If my wife was cheating on me, I'd want to know. I'd be hella mad.. I'd probably break the fuckers face with a hammer or something like that.. but in the end I'd appreciate it..

Who wants to be married or engaged to a "whore"??? On the one hand I agree, stay out of it.. but on the other, you gotta put yourself in those shoes and ask yourself, would you want someone to tell you. I would, therefore I'd probably tell.. that is if I was not the one T-boning the girl.. If I were a third party then I'd tell.. but telling a guy that you've been boinking his girl is rather rough...

I dunno about that.. I guess it's your own call.. but I feel for the guy I really do, he's gonna be hurt.. obviously he loves the chick.. she probably likes him too.. but is just addicted to the Western Willy...

[japslapper]

So heres a question for you... Which is worse? that she violated your trust by havnig sex with someone else or that you violated her trust by reading through her phone?

When I am just playing around - I am careful. I dont do one night stands - I take a week or two about getting to know a chick before going further - it makes sense in this world now - HIV etc..... If I figure she is a whore then I dont do anything - I am careful. In this case Yuki is a teacher at this Japanese langauge school I was at (its cheap, most of the students are Chinese...) ....anyway about 2 weeks into my stay she offered to show me around Tokyo - and then by natural progression it was back to my room for "Brit Tea and muffins". My suspisions were roused a) by her futon vocab b) her keitai was on silent mode - but on the screen I could see a katakana name appear again and again(she didnt answer - ie some gaijin was trying to get hold of her while I was teaching her, "her paternity" . I didn't look at her ketai beyond last calls etc - and anyway she let me play with it to take photos of her with a "cumberland sausage" in her mouth. After I quizzed her and got some names - I had again one look and memorised three numbers from her address book - I mean I could have asked around(or posted here ) and got the numbers that way - but my way was quicker.

I am not a jealous type - I dont care what a j-chick does so long as it doesnt fuck me up (disease) however living here in Japan for nearly 3 years, I have become very aware of how tough life is for FGs - hopefully I can do another FG a good turn by warning him. Anyway if another FG screwed my long term j-chick? I would shake his hand and kick her for six - thats my attitude. I would want to be told

Anyway this Florida FG is gonna get the bad news in person from a Brit FG, a Texan FG and a Californian FG - when Yuki-baishunfu is there too!

I mean how would you feel if took your wonderful J-chick back to your country with here and find out in DNA test some 20 years later that actually daddy for your kids is some Aussie back packer - conceived on your tatami!:evil: I think I did the right think once I twigged - and telling this guy hopefully will be the right thing

[maraboutslim]

I just want to butt in here to say that Asskisser's backdoor post was the funniest thing i've ever read on this forum! way to go, brother.

[Mini_B]

Listen Japslapper - I suggest you take her to the swinger party in Tokyo http://www.tokyosw.net/en/venus/ and take advantage of some other FG's wives that are more honest about their sexual desires.

[AssKissinger]

AK, are you a backdoor kind a' guy?

Yes

I tend not to venture into those nether regions.

Lame

LMAO!!!!!!!!!

STOP IT! Just spat nihon shu all over my keyboard!!!!

I just want to butt in here to say that Asskisser's backdoor post was the funniest thing i've ever read on this forum! way to go, brother

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It's nice to be appreciated. Thank-you.


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[GuyJean]

I don't know, j-slapper. You're treading a fine line..

Why are you getting involved, or even snooping in her phone, if she's 'nothing' to you and just a plaything? Why do you feel you HAVE to tell this guy? For the only reason that he's a gaijin? You don't know anything about him. Like others have said, maybe he already knows.. Would you feel obligated to tell a Japanese spouse of one of your 'playthings'?

Anyway this Florida FG is gonna get the bad news in person from a Brit FG, a Texan FG and a Californian FG - when Yuki-baishunfu is there too!

Get ready to be murdered.. If I was in his shoes, I'd feel ganged-up on, hurt, anger, hate, vengence, pain, and very much wanting to give pain.. That's a fucking stupid way of telling him, IMO.. Why don't you invite him on Jerry Springer?

GJ

[cstaylor]

Plus, the girl, as a Japanese national, only has to go to the police and claim that she was raped by you. 21 days in lockup is probably a great way to think about the consequences of sticking your nose in where it doesn't belong.

[kurohinge1]

... That's a fucking stupid way of telling him, IMO.. Why don't you invite him on Jerry Springer? ...

I agree with GuyJean.

Why don't you just email/SMS him those photos you took, from Yuki-chan's keitai