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eneman wrote:..So what i am asking is how long did it take to resort to other ways to feel comfortable away from the usual scene at home with mates etc?
Can`t speak the language good enough to converse in any depth with the locals and get sick of the comings and goings of new friends.
sillygirl wrote:Learn Japanese. The telly here'll kill ya!
eneman wrote:....
I would rather eat dogshit than sit in front of Japanese TV, anyday so fuck learning the lingo for that..... The Japanese mindset just sends me loopy....
eneman wrote:Taro, is that`loopy lies`?. And does Ware ware nihonjin mean `us Japanese` or japanese are different. As I said Japanese is not my strongest point.
eneman wrote:... But I see the point of going gung-ho on the language, even if it is to keep one jump ahead of the kid. Be pretty embarrassing if she can speak better than me and she`s still only 1 yr...
kamome wrote: But you know what? Now I don't care anymore. I don't feel a need to be accepted in Japanese society. I just do my own thing, and I know who my real friends are. If you are secure in that knowledge--and are proud of the country you are from--then you can avoid getting stressed about the other things. Some dumbass "wareware nihonjin" comment won't bother you if you learn to tune that stuff out and develop the positives in your own life. However, this requires a shift in attitude that you have to warm up to--it doesn't necessarily come all at once.
Once youv'e convinced a J-Girl to try anal sex, there is sadly, very little to achieve in Japan
Jushin-Thunder-Liger wrote:The only other thing i really want to do before i go home, is get a Fillipino girlfriend for a while. I cant seem to find many about though, any tips?
Jushin-Thunder-Liger wrote:The only other thing i really want to do before i go home, is get a Fillipino girlfriend for a while. I cant seem to find many about though, any tips?
GomiGirl wrote:But if you have a mellow, laid back attitude of "Live and let live" then these things don't stress you out and you can just enjoy living in such a kooky place.
All sound advice from a plethora of perspectives. I think we all have went through this and if not, you're either still in the dream phase or you're just an insensitive being...
Ol Dirty Gaijin wrote:
Work drives me nuts here, but the ritual I had the first six months, on a Friday night with the same ramen shop and bar helped me feel I had a normal life. And sped up learning how to talk general shit in Japanese.
hakuman wrote:All sound advice from a plethora of perspectives. I think we all have went through this and if not, you're either still in the dream phase or you're just an insensitive being...
I never went through it, and I dont think I am an insensitive being or in a dream phase.
American Oyaji wrote:Ol Dirty Gaijin wrote:
Work drives me nuts here, but the ritual I had the first six months, on a Friday night with the same ramen shop and bar helped me feel I had a normal life. And sped up learning how to talk general shit in Japanese.
I must say that this helped my Japanese. Every Friday and Saturday, I went to the same bar. Helped my Japanese and my wallet because I could drink on credit. Being a regular has its benefits.
AssKissinger wrote:I can't believe you ditched out on those people without paying. Low class.
kamome wrote:AssKissinger wrote:I can't believe you ditched out on those people without paying. Low class.
Wait, AO didn't say he never paid. He drank on credit. Presumably he paid his bar tab at some point, right AO?
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