
By The Sydney Morning Herald /' Deborah Cameron, correspondent in Tokyo
August 17, 2004If Japan had a motto of the moment it would be: Baby, where are you? Men can't find wives, women can't find husbands, and whatever sex is going on is not producing the usual result in the birth statistics.
Which is where 34-year-old Kiyoharu Ohashi comes in. His remedial college for bachelors, optimistically dubbed Bridegroom School...
many theories about what has gone wrong with the Japanese family. It could be the poor example of earlier generations, the dominance of work, the increased independence and ambition of women, the absence of child-care facilities, the expectation that wives will look after ageing in-laws, the reluctance of men to accept a share of household and child-rearing responsibilities or the hedonism and plain selfishness of young people.
While public policy makers are inclined to put the responsibility on young women, Mr Ohashi believes that it is men who need to wake up.