[American Oyaji]

Well, Hawaii is basically a small version of Japan these days.

I think if she lived in mainland USA. and NOT in LA, she would find that Japanese life is probably better.

I mean, social issues aside. All the things I love about Japan I cannot find here in Ohio. I would love to go to an onsen or a sento. Demo nai.

If I had the money I would build a house with all the Japanese convieniences I love. I would build it in the moutains with an outdoor bath.

It would be my fotress of solitude. And I would have as much Japanese programming piped in as possible with a T3 connection to the outside world.

And I would have a staff of beautiful Japanese women to ITE!

Do to the nature of his thoughts, I have taken over my husbands brain temporarily, sorry for the interuption, but how else would 156cm me control a 207cm man? @(^_^)@ -- Akiko

[Blah Pete]

She is also critical of the way the country allows the sex industry to run unchecked, with minors taking advantage of it to earn spending money.

Hey somebody shut this woman up before people start to listen to her and we lose a good source of easy sex.

[American Oyaji]

Sex is easy in Japan. And I never had to stoop to the school girl level.

I mean, my first time in Roppongi I scored. I was slobbing one girl down and was set up for later, and pulled one girl as she was leaving a club. I said a couple words and we were off.

I worked as a bartender in a disco too. Lots of free sex there too.

But those days are over.

[Jack]

Go in front of Printemps department store in Ginza as a gaijin and stand there for a few minutes you will see dozens of gorgeous Japanese girls. Talk to any one of them and most of the time they will agree to go for a coffee, drink or dinner or even more. Any normal looking and normal acting English-speaking gaijin in Japan never has a need to pay for sex.

[Blah Pete]

Sex is easy in Japan. And I never had to stoop to the school girl level.

I know that, you know that. But why do only about 1% of Japanese men know that!!

I used to work with Japanese guys who had no idea of how to pickup women. Their idea of sex was to go down to Hinode-Cho (Yokohama red light neghborhood) and buy a piece a few times a week. Their alternative was go to a 'Hand Job' bar and drop about 20,000 yen or a 'BJ' bar for 50,000.

Gucci, Prada, and the trandy cshops in Shibuya are the ones who really benefit off the salaryman-school girl transactions.

[GomiGirl]

Sex is easy anywhere - seriously!!

With some good manners and an honest approach it is easy to talk to people and then whatever. Why oh why do people (and I generalise with guy people) think they need to have a wad of cash, a smart pick-up line, be CEO of a company or porsche to meet people (female people) to get lucky.

Most women are just looking for a nice guy who can make them laugh and this whole song and dance of dating rules etc has fucked everybody up!! Not all women are looking to snag a rich guy - sometimes they are only looking for a quick annonymous shag or a fun night out. We are all not so different as the stereotypes suggest!!!

Sex is a normal human function and only people who deny their sexuality don't need it!! (an aside - these people have serious problems and need to be avoided at all costs)

Use your brains, be honest and sex is out there anytime, anywhere. It doesn't have to cost alot of money. Don't be a smart ass or pretend to be something you think women are looking for....

This goes for all adults - all races, all genders, all cultures and religions.

Perhaps I need to hold some seminars and workshops in both English and Japanese.

[American Oyaji]

GomiGirl, sorry to say,
The evidence is against you. YOU may be that way. But you are obviously not the majority of women. You are WAY different from the average woman. i.e. Living in a foreign country. Thats a different mindset altogether. Also a more open one.

Most women in the U.S. ever since I was aware of women go for , looks, style and cash. And not exactly in that order but its in the top 3. And most guys will be nice at first and after they get that shag, they could care less. Then they dump that baggage on the normal guys.
There is a saying,
Money talks, bullshit walks.

Also,
Everyone has a price.

[kamome]

Go in front of Printemps department store in Ginza as a gaijin and stand there for a few minutes you will see dozens of gorgeous Japanese girls. Talk to any one of them and most of the time they will agree to go for a coffee, drink or dinner or even more. Any normal looking and normal acting English-speaking gaijin in Japan never has a need to pay for sex.

Jack: You are absolutely right about the chicks at Printemps in Ginza. All of them coming out of there are incredibly hot. I haven't tried the nanpa thing with them, but I can imagine that it's not too hard.

[Jack]

I don't live in Japan but go there 7 or 8 times a year and I travel around the world on business almost every week. Nowhere are girls as hot as they are in Tokyo. The way they dress and make-up and talk. You never apreciate it I suppose when you are living there and see it all the time. But when you see the stiff girls in Europe or America you apreciate the Tokyo style much more. Poor Japanese men wo don't know what they have on their hands. That's great for us gaijins, because girls seek affection and gaijins give it to them.